No woman wants to face the horror of her husband’s betrayal. Or have to recover from the emotional, physical & financial trauma and never-ending consequences. But these courageous women DID. And we’ll walk with you, so YOU can too. If you’re experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to your husband’s lying, anger, gaslighting, manipulation, infidelity, and/or emotional abuse… If he’s undermined you and condemned you as an angry, codependent, controlling gold-digger… If you think your husband might be an addict or narcissist. Or even if he’s “just” a jerk… If your husband (or ex) is miserable to be aro...
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Sep 29, 2026 · 31:24
There is no fear or pain quite like the trauma a woman experiences when your ex uses the kids to hurt you. Whether it’s through the family court system, co-parenting, or everyday…
Sep 22, 2026 · 32:56
Are you looking for the best emotional abuse support groups online ? Here’s what you need to know. 1. DO THE EMOTIONAL ABUSE SUPPORT GROUPS ONLINE HAVE OTHER RESOURCES? The best…
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If you searched “is watching inappropriate media cheating” you’re probably looking for clarity. For a woman who has just discovered what her husband has been secretly doing with…
Sep 8, 2026 · 42:20
“How do you listen to a podcast and stay undiscovered?” might seem like an odd question to most people, especially at a time when technology makes access to media so easy. But…
Sep 1, 2026 · 38:04
By the time many women find Betrayal Trauma Recovery they’ve already been through years of couples counseling, addiction therapy, or programs focused on marriage therapy for…
Aug 25, 2026 · 31:47
Do you feel anxious, confused, or unsafe in your marriage, but you can’t quite explain why? These 7 emotional safety examples can help you find clarity when your husband’s words…
Aug 18, 2026 · 39:02
We’d all like to believe that divorce stops abuse, but post separation abuse is so common. The truth is, abusers don’t stop wanting power over their victims, even after divorce.…
Aug 11, 2026 · 26:00
Most women would probably not describe their husband as misogynistic. But some examples of misogyny are so subtle, you may be surprised to realize your husband is doing them. 3…
Aug 4, 2026 · 49:50
If you’ve been thinking, “I dislike my husband,” but you feel guilty about it because he’s supposedly improved himself lately, here’s what you need to know. WHY DISLIKING YOUR…
Jul 28, 2026 · 31:37
If you constantly feel confused, exhausted, or to blame for every issue in your relationship, you might be dealing with covert narcissist traits that are difficult to name. Once…
Jul 21, 2026 · 55:49
If you’ve ever searched for a marriage bible reference because someone told you, “A good Christian wife shouldn’t say no,” you’re not alone. Many women, especially when we’re…
Jul 14, 2026 · 29:21
Women who feel, “my husband is taking advantage of me,” may often be confused by the damaging advice they receive when they go for help. And what you know right now may only be…
Jul 7, 2026 · 20:38
When trust has been broken, or when conflict keeps repeating in a relationship, many women begin searching for answers about boundaries in marriage . WOMEN NEED BOUNDARIES IN…
Jun 30, 2026 · 31:55
If you’ve searched for “affordable relationship counseling near me,” it’s important to know these five things before you schedule an appointment. FIVE THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE…
Jun 23, 2026 · 39:32
Are you seeing things in your marriage or a relationship that feel a little intense or puzzling…and you’re not sure if they’re normal or actually signs of a toxic relationship?…
Jun 16, 2026 · 36:57
Many women quietly search how to prepare for divorce long before they say anything out loud. Preparing for divorce isn’t just paperwork. It’s emotional, strategic, and deeply…
Jun 9, 2026 · 43:10
If you’re searching for an emotional abuse checklist, you’re looking for clarity. I’m an emotional abuse expert. My team has helped over 8,000 clients identify emotional abuse…
Jun 2, 2026 · 26:23
When emotional battering is covert, each moment looks harmless on its own. A comment, joke, or a nice” surprise might seem harmless. But when you step back and look at the…
May 26, 2026 · 34:02
If you’ve been betrayed by your husband, you’ve probably replayed every conversation in your head. What he said. What it meant . Here are six things a cheating husband says that…
May 19, 2026 · 20:44
For many women, signs of emotional manipulation don’t stop with their husband. It often spreads outward, into families, faith communities, friend groups, and even professional…
May 12, 2026 · 32:41
If you’re typing “Celebrate Recovery near me” into Google because you’re desperate for help after discovering that your husband has been lying to you about his infidelity or his…
May 5, 2026 · 26:01
I hear this over and over again: betrayal trauma in marriage doesn’t just come from discovering a husband’s lies. For many women, it deepens when they reach out for help, and…
Apr 28, 2026 · 30:02
If your husband is constantly angry, you’ve probably tried everything to calm the tension. You stay kind, patient, careful, and endlessly understanding. But what if his…
Apr 21, 2026 · 18:40
Coercive control is a sustained pattern of controlling a domestic partner. However, coercive control inherently means that it’s not a partnership at all. Here’s why. Coercive…
Apr 14, 2026 · 42:47
Have you thought to yourself, “he says I’m controlling but I’m not.” If so, he’s likely emotionally and psychologically abusive. Here are 3 things to know. There are 19 different…
Apr 7, 2026 · 54:23
You’re not wrong for wanting things to be better. If you’re searching for a ‘prayer for my husband’ because you’ve been told that if you have enough faith, you can change him,…
Mar 31, 2026 · 27:33
Do you feel like you’re stuck in a cycle in your marriage, where every few days, weeks, or months there’s an eruption of confusion and conflict? And no matter how well you try…
Mar 24, 2026 · 29:35
If your husband lies about small things , here’s why it’s not a small problem. Many women in our community describe the same beginning: they start noticing little lies,…
Mar 17, 2026 · 33:01
Are you looking for a therapist for trauma bonding because someone told you that you’re trauma bonded with your emotionally abusive husband (or ex)? Here’s what no one will…
Mar 10, 2026 · 38:31
When most people hear the word “controlling,” they typically imagine someone who uses threats or overt intimidation to get what they want. But often, signs husband is controlling…
Mar 3, 2026 · 34:35
Have you noticed that your husband now criticizes the very traits he once loved? Narcissists groom victims by presenting themselves as safe, loving, and trustworthy at first, to…
Feb 24, 2026 · 46:08
If you’re searching for a support group for marriage problems because your husband’s behavior is starting to scare you, or because traditional counseling hasn’t helped, you’re in…
Feb 17, 2026 · 21:57
If you’re searching how to deal with angry husband , it’s probably because you’ve already tried everything—being understanding, being patient, being quieter, being “better,”…
Feb 10, 2026 · 29:25
After the discovery of betrayal, life may feel overwhelming. Here’s what I learned about recovery after betrayal from interviewing four women who experienced betrayal in their…
Feb 3, 2026 · 18:53
If you’ve discovered your husband has been lying to you and cheating and you’re wondering how to recover after being cheated on, the best place to start is to get clear about…
Jan 27, 2026 · 35:56
After betrayal, one of the first questions a woman asks is, “How can I trust my husband again?” What she’s often really wondering is, how can she trust herself to know if he’s…
Jan 20, 2026 · 41:03
If you have a feeling that your husband is lying, and giving you versions of stories aren’t the whole truth, you’re probably wrestling with a quiet ache that is becoming…
Jan 13, 2026 · 22:56
Has your husband betrayed your trust, lied to you, or left you feeling confused about what’s really happening? Many women think, “Maybe we just need couples therapy near me to…
Jan 6, 2026 · 58:59
Counter parenting is one of the most overlooked forms of abuse, where one parent actively works against the other instead of with them. It undermines stability, confuses…
Dec 30, 2025 · 12:31
For many women who’ve discovered their husband has had a secret life, learning how to recover after infidelity isn’t about fixing the relationship; it’s about finding emotional…
Dec 23, 2025 · 45:01
Have you caught yourself thinking, my husband is ignoring me and feeling that knot in your stomach when the silence drags on? You’re not making it up. Silence can be its own form…
Dec 16, 2025 · 39:09
Co-parenting with a narcissist seems impossible. I know I’ve been there. If your husband or ex is narcissistic, here are 7 ways your he might try to undermine you and your kids,…
Dec 9, 2025 · 32:27
If you’re considering marriage infidelity counseling, you’re not alone. Most women in crisis start here, Googling late at night, hoping a professional can finally make sense of…
Dec 2, 2025 · 23:31
Learning how to set boundaries in an emotionally abusive relationship may seem confusing and overwhelming. Setting Boundaries With Your Emotionally Abusive Husband Will Establish…
Nov 25, 2025 · 39:54
Many women ask, “What if my husband says he doesn’t love me??” It will surprise you to know that it’s actually a lie. Here’s what you need to know. Did you know there are 19…
Nov 18, 2025 · 22:01
When a woman finds out her husband has been lying, one question she usually asks is, “Is my husband addicted to…” Here’s what you really need to know. Before reading on, did you…
Nov 11, 2025 · 22:56
Healing emotional wounds in relationships, especially from a toxic marriage, is vital to our emotional health. Here’s how to find the right support. To discover if you’re…
Nov 4, 2025 · 23:43
It is crucial for women to recognize the signs of clergy misconduct, as those who experience betrayal or emotional abuse often turn to their faith communities for solace and…
Oct 28, 2025 · 34:37
You might think you already know the answer to this question: “What does God say about divorce?” But here’s the thing, the Bible has told righteous people throughout all of time…
Oct 21, 2025 · 23:48
Has your husband (or his therapist) weaponized codependency language to harm you? Here’s why codependents anonymous might not be right for you. Is Codependents Anonymous the…
Oct 14, 2025 · 16:01
Husband future faking is when a husband uses promises about the future (trips, counseling, moving, budgets, a baby, “I’ll change”) to control what you do today , delaying…
Oct 7, 2025 · 30:30
Covert emotional abuse is difficult to identify. If you’re wondering if you’re husband is using covert emotional abuse, here’s what you need to know. To discover if your husband…
Sep 30, 2025 · 31:12
Are you asking yourself, “Is my husband hiding money?” If you suspect he might be keeping secrets, including financial ones, it’s important to recognize the signs. From sneaky…
Sep 23, 2025 · 27:40
If you’ve been sensing: “I think my husband is cheating…” If so, you’re not alone. Many women describe the same experience: A constant sense that something is “off” A feeling of…
Sep 16, 2025 · 46:25
Here are some of the most common scriptures on betrayal. Then I’ll dive into an analysis of betrayal—specifically in the context of a husband betraying his wife, using examples…
Sep 9, 2025 · 19:46
Divorce isn’t just paperwork—it’s a complex emotional and logistical process that’s almost impossible to navigate alone. Divorce and emotional abuse go hand-in-hand. If you’re…
Sep 2, 2025 · 48:31
Many women spend years (and thousands of dollars) hiring a therapist codependency expert after someone convinces them they are the problem. If someone has labeled you…
Aug 26, 2025 · 29:09
If you’re realizing, “my husband won’t stop lying,” you’re not alone. Below you’ll find six ways he’ll react if he gets caught. Understanding these reactions can help you make…
Aug 19, 2025 · 20:02
If you’re thinking, “My husband is paranoid and angry,” this interview will help you sort out what’s really going on. It’s likely that you’re experiencing emotional abuse. To…
Aug 12, 2025 · 9:27
In the face of emotional and psychological abuse, women often carry the burden of being the peacemaker. But what does Jesus say about abuse? Matthew 5:25 is often quoted to…
Aug 5, 2025 · 30:40
If you never thought you’d have to deal with narcissistic abuse in marriage, you’re not alone. To see if you’re experiencing any of the 19 types of emotional abuse you’ll…
Jul 29, 2025 · 36:45
Does shame cause cheating—or is it just an excuse? Discover the real cause of cheating and why shame isn’t the reason your husband keeps lying. If you’re experiencing the pain…
Jul 22, 2025 · 35:22
Exploitative material isn’t entertainment, it’s the commercialization of women’s bodies. It’s harmful to everyone. If your husband is on phone all the time, it’s important to…
Jul 15, 2025 · 26:28
If you’ve discovered your husband’s lies or infidelity, will marriage counseling help? What you need to know about the best marriage counseling near me for couples. Did you know…
Jul 8, 2025 · 13:19
If you’ve just discovered your husband’s dark secrets, most women don’t know where to turn for help. If you’re wondering what to do when husband betrays your trust, here are 3…
Jul 1, 2025 · 20:16
So many women struggle with the question: “What to do when you are mad at your husband?”. If you’re angry because your husband has harmed you, your anger makes sense. Did you…
Jun 24, 2025 · 38:55
If you’re wondering, “Why is my husband yelling at me?” the answer might surprise you. Here are 7 key questions to help uncover the real reasons behind his constant anger. 1.…
Jun 17, 2025 · 16:42
A husband’s lying, infidelity, gaslighting, and emotional abuse causes betrayal trauma. The effects can leave women feeling lost, confused, and unsafe. Understanding the 4 stages…
Jun 10, 2025 · 55:02
Did you recently discover you husband flirting with women online or using pornography? Are you confused, hurt, devastated, and afraid? If your wondering “Is online infidelity…
Jun 3, 2025 · 35:06
If you’re wondering about psychological abuse vs emotional abuse, here’s what to know. Emotional abuse is when someone manipulates your emotions to exploit you. He can use…
May 27, 2025 · 15:47
If you suspect your husband is having an affair, is it wrong to check your husband’s phone? Does access to your husband’s phone ensure he’ll stay faithful? Jenn shares 3 reasons…
May 20, 2025 · 21:55
I went through so many stages of anger after infidelity. Here’s what I learned over the years. I realized I wasn’t just healing from his infidelity—I was also recovering from…
May 13, 2025 · 12:48
If you’ve endured repeated betrayal from your husband, you’re not alone. Many women in our community have faced the long-term effects of emotional abuse in their marriage.…
May 6, 2025 · 32:59
If you’re wondering, “Is my relationship safe?” It’s important to look at patterns of abusive behavior. Physical abuse never happens without emotional abuse, so the first step is…
Apr 29, 2025 · 35:31
If you’re searching for warning signs your husband is dangerous it’s important to know that many victims “only” experience emotional abuse until . . . Anne Blythe, founder of…
Apr 22, 2025 · 37:44
It’s shocking how common financial abuse in divorce is. Here are the best ways to protect yourself. Divorce is hard. If you’ve been married to a narcissistic abuser, it can feel…
Apr 15, 2025 · 31:24
Hidden abuse is characterized by lies and manipulation, and it causes trauma that’s hard to recognize. To discover if you’re experiencing any of the 19 types of hidden abuse,…
Apr 8, 2025 · 34:05
Is it possible to heal from emotional abuse and betrayal trauma? Everyday, brave women resist in a variety of ways. Penny shares her story of how she resisted abuse and finally…
Apr 1, 2025 · 21:47
If you’re asking yourself, “Should I get a divorce?” you’re likely in a place of deep confusion. You might feel: Relieved at the thought of leaving Overwhelmed by what comes next…
Mar 25, 2025 · 14:26
Did you know that it’s considered child abuse to expose a child to inappropriate media? Here’s how to protect children from online threats. To discover if you’re emotionally…
Mar 18, 2025 · 52:40
If you’re struggling to deal with an addict husband, we get it. We’re here for you. Our Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions are for women who have done everything they can to…
Mar 11, 2025 · 21:18
A lot of women are looking for answers about how to heal betrayal trauma in relationships on Reddit or other forums. Here’s what those forums get wrong: 1. Betrayal Trauma isn’t…
Mar 4, 2025 · 56:54
There’s another word for toxic – abusive. If you’re asking, “Is my husband toxic?” What you’re really asking is, is he emotionally or psychologically abusive. Here’s three things…
Feb 25, 2025 · 45:02
What’s the difference between emotional abuse and normal conflict? I’ll dive into that below. When we’re figuring out the difference between emotional abuse vs normal conflict,…
Feb 18, 2025 · 39:26
Do you have betrayal trauma symptoms? Did any professional that you went to help you understand that you are a victim of emotional and psychological abuse? If not, you’re not the…
Feb 11, 2025 · 24:56
If your husband never apologizes, that’s a problem. But there’s an even bigger problem many people don’t talk about: if your husband apologizes, how do you know if it’s genuine?…
Feb 4, 2025 · 47:57
Is therapy causing you to feel worse? Do you keep going, thinking maybe the next session will be the breakthrough? Here are the warning signs of an abusive therapist every woman…
Jan 28, 2025 · 10:43
If you’re wondering how to get back to yourself after emotional abuse, listen to how Anne Blythe, M.Ed. came back to herself through writing, exercise, and boundaries. Do you…
Jan 21, 2025 · 1:03:44
Do you feel like something is “off” with your husband? If you’re asking, “Why is my husband constantly on his phone?” Here’s what couple therapists or clergy won’t tell you. Dr.…
Jan 14, 2025 · 40:12
Does your husband promise you that he will do anything to help heal your marriage from his betrayal, lies, and emotional abuse? Then then doesn’t do anything? “I fight for our…
Jan 7, 2025 · 36:31
If your in-laws enable emotional abuse, you’re not alone. Tragically, this is an extremely common occurrence for victims. Tanya shares her heartbreaking story of living through…
Dec 31, 2024 · 44:49
If you’re experiencing narcissistic abuse, know that you’re not alone. How to spot your husband’s narcissistic abuse: 1. He Makes Harmful Choices Seem Like “Accidents” One early…
Dec 24, 2024 · 14:49
When a man chooses to have a secret sexual basement, he’s abusing his wife. Here’s why. A secret sexual basement refers to a hidden life that a man conceals from his wife and…
Dec 17, 2024 · 13:24
Betrayal trauma occurs when you’ve experienced (or are still experiencing) your husband’s emotional and psychological abuse. If you recently found out your husband has been lying…
Dec 10, 2024 · 36:44
If you’re wondering, “How do I know if my husband is abusive ?” You’re not alone. Hearing the stories of other women can help you know what to do next. Coach Jo is a Betrayal…
Dec 3, 2024 · 39:25
Women seeking treatment for divorce following the devastation of betrayal and a life they didn’t expect often ask, “Will I ever be okay again?” It’s hard to imagine at first that…
Nov 26, 2024 · 13:34
One of the most important things support groups for survivors of emotional abuse do, is offer women a safe place to process what has happened to them in a community of women who…
Nov 19, 2024 · 24:55
Voicing the agony of betrayal trauma can come in many different forms. Ralynne Riggs, a professional singer and victim of betrayal and abuse, shares her experience. She created a…
Nov 12, 2024 · 36:37
Have you experienced emotional abuse from your husband? Maybe in the form of sexual betrayal. If so, here are five affirmations for emotional abuse victims. 1. I Am Enough…
Nov 5, 2024 · 41:08
If your narcissist ex won’t leave you alone—even after the divorce—you know how exhausting it is to feel like there’s no real break, no matter how much space you try to create.…
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