Warning Signs Your Husband Is Dangerous – Susan’s Story With Dave Cawley

If you’re searching for warning signs your husband is dangerous it’s important to know that many victims “only” experience emotional abuse until . . .

Anne Blythe, founder of Betrayal Trauma Recovery, talks to Dave Cawley, host of the Cold podcast series, about the Susan Powell case, empowering victims to protect themselves and seek safety now.

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Warning Signs Your Husband Is Dangerous – Susan’s Story With Dave Cawley (THIS EPISODE)
Patterns To Look Out For In Your Relationship

Abuse Doesn’t Always Mean Physical Battering

Many abuse victims do not have proof. They don’t have bruises or broken bones to show the world that their partner is abusing them.

Instead, their bruises and brokenness are hidden beneath the surface. They can be found in the way they doubt their own worth, in the way they feel they are responsible for their husband’s choices.

Other forms of abuse, just as serious as physical battering, include:

• Emotional abuse
• Psychological abuse
• Financial abuse
• Sexual abuse
• Sexual Coercion
• Spiritual abuse
• Covert physical abuse

Like many women in the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Community, Susan Powell was not a victim of physical battering, as far as experts can tell. But she suffered deeply from the abusive behaviors of her husband, Josh. To see if you’re a victim of this type of abuse, take our Emotional Abuse Quiz.

Susan Powell’s Story Teaches Us That Victim-Blaming Harms

Questions and statements like:

• If it was so bad, why didn’t she leave?
• It takes two to tango
• Why did you push his buttons?
• Why don’t you work harder on making sure he’s happy?
• He’s not hitting you, are you sure it’s abuse?

Even after Susan Powell’s ten year disappearance, many still blame her subtly by asking, “If it was so bad, then why did she stay?”

As Dave says, the societal focus should be on why so many men are abusing women, not why women are staying in abusive relationships.

Susan Powell’s Story Teaches Us That Anyone Can Be A Victim

Josh Powell was diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. However, even those who are not diagnosed with NPD can be narcissistic abusers. The mental and emotional toll that narcissistic abuse takes on victims is extreme. Becoming educated about narcissistic abuse. And protecting themselves through effective boundaries can help women find safety from this insidious form of abuse.

3 Tips For Seeking Safety From Abuse

1. Trust your gut. If it feels like something is off, it probably is. Don’t ignore that feeling.
2. You have more support than you realize. A lot of times, we don’t recognize how strong and wide our network is. Reach out, you might be surprised.
3. If you leave, you’re going to be okay. It’s scary to leave, but it’s not as scary as you probably think, once you’re on the other side.

Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group meets multiple times a day and offers women a community of supportive, validating, and knowledgeable women to help them find safety from betrayal and abuse. Join today and share your story, process your trauma, ask hard questions, and vent painful feelings.

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