The Worthy Wife | Christian Marriage, Walking on Eggshells, Self-Confidence After 50
Carrie Allemeersch Certified Life Coach, Christian
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Carrie Allemeersch Certified Life Coach, Christian
▶ WebplayerChristian marriage, emotional safety, self-confidence, and peace for empty nest wives Christian wives—especially empty nesters—who feel like they’re walking on eggshells in marriage and longing to feel accepted, this podcast is for you. If your adult children are choosing difficult paths and marriage feels emotionally heavy, you’ll find faith-centered clarity and confidence here. The Worthy Wife Podcast is for Christian wives—especially empty nesters—who feel like they’re walking on eggshells in marriage and quietly longing to feel accepted, confident, and at peace with God. I’m Carrie Allemeersch, Certified Life Coach, wife, and mom. This podcast is...
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Sep 29, 2026 · 14:39
Have you made your husband—or even your marriage—the center of your life? For years, I didn't realize how much of my life was being organized around my husband's happiness,…
Sep 22, 2026 · 14:10
Does turning the other cheek mean a Christian wife should tolerate hurtful behavior, stay quiet, or avoid setting boundaries in her marriage? A listener recently asked me this…
Sep 15, 2026 · 19:30
Does radical acceptance mean you must tolerate harmful behaviour, forgive immediately, or stay in an unhealthy marriage? No. Radical acceptance means facing the facts of your…
Sep 8, 2026 · 22:28
What does it actually mean when the Bible calls a wife her husband’s “helper” or “help meet”? For years, I believed being a good Christian wife meant supporting my husband by…
Sep 1, 2026 · 26:32
Can you stay after marital infidelity without losing your voice, dignity, or sense of self? In this listener-inspired episode of The Worthy Wife, Carrie responds to a Christian…
Aug 25, 2026 · 12:21
Why do you want what you want? You may want to lose weight, declutter your home, improve your finances or gain your husband’s approval. These can all be reasonable desires—but…
Aug 18, 2026 · 28:06
Do you feel guilty after setting a boundary with your husband, adult child or another family member? That guilt does not automatically mean your boundary was selfish, unloving or…
Aug 11, 2026 · 16:28
A boundary is a decision about what you will do—not a demand that another adult change. One of the hardest things for a Christian Wife to do is hold her boundaries. The hardest…
Aug 4, 2026 · 31:43
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Jul 28, 2026 · 40:29
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Jul 21, 2026 · 25:59
Today I share why I think that it is you who should do all of the work to make your relationship better!! And 2 things that you can try to help diffuse the arguing in your…
Jul 14, 2026 · 11:31
What’s the real difference between thinking something and actually believing it? In this episode, Carrie breaks down a subtle but critical gap that keeps many Christian women…
Jul 7, 2026 · 16:51
What if the reason you’re staying quiet, overthinking your responses, or avoiding hard conversations… isn’t because you’re fragile—but because you’ve decided you can’t handle…
Jun 30, 2026 · 21:42
If you’ve ever felt like you are a bother or an inconvenience to someone else just for showing up this episode is for you. Today I’m sharing with you some lessons that I was…
Jun 23, 2026 · 11:25
You say you want respect in your marriage and your family—but if you’re still walking on eggshells, constantly adjusting yourself to keep the peace, something isn’t working. This…
Jun 16, 2026 · 15:55
The Woman Who Is Willing to Feel Anything Is Unstoppable Episode Description: You think you’re stuck because of your marriage… but what if that’s not actually true? In this…
Jun 9, 2026 · 17:09
Christian marriage help for women walking on eggshells: how to stop reacting to your husband’s moods, build emotional stability, and lead your life with confidence. If I’m…
May 26, 2026 · 22:00
You are not stuck. But you may be drifting. In this episode of The Worthy Wife Podcast, I share a powerful moment from a calendar session with a friend who realized something…
May 19, 2026 · 34:08
I’m going to say something in this episode that might feel uncomfortable—but if you’re willing to hear it, it could change the direction of your life. You’re not confused. You’re…
May 12, 2026 · 15:23
What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because your life is too full… but because you’ve stopped intentionally deciding what belongs in it? In this deeply personal episode of…
May 11, 2026 · 9:40
In this brief episode Carrie takes just a few quick moments to ask the questions, "what will your life look like in 10 years if you don't intentionally start using your time to…
May 5, 2026 · 19:03
Christian Women, Responsibility, and the Myth of Balance I’m going to say something that might challenge you a bit: You don’t have a time problem. You have a truth problem. In…
Apr 28, 2026 · 10:55
Stop Defending Yourself in Marriage-even when your husband tells you who you are. Have you ever felt the need to explain yourself the moment your husband says: “You always do…
Apr 21, 2026 · 10:44
Christian marriage, walking on eggshells, influence vs control, reclaiming agency Episode Summary I want to talk to the woman who has been trying to do everything “right” in her…
Apr 14, 2026 · 23:22
Are you trying to keep your husband happy… and feeling like you’re failing no matter what you do? In this honest and deeply personal episode, we explore the exhausting cycle of…
Apr 7, 2026 · 15:56
What is a narcissist… really? And more importantly—why does that question feel so important to answer in your marriage? If you’ve ever found yourself searching: “10 signs he’s a…
Mar 31, 2026 · 14:20
Have you ever found yourself quietly asking, “Is my husband a narcissist?” You’re not alone. I hear this question often from women who feel like they are constantly walking on…
Mar 24, 2026 · 17:09
You’re not disorganized—you’ve been treating your life like it doesn’t matter. For years, I believed that being constantly available meant I was doing something meaningful. If I…
Mar 17, 2026 · 24:02
Walking on Eggshells in Your Marriage? The Trigger Might Not Be His Words Many Christian wives who feel like they are walking on eggshells in their marriage believe their…
Mar 10, 2026 · 16:08
Are you someone who struggles with walking on eggshells in your relationships? Could it be that behind the scenes that you are your own harshest critic. Today I am going to give…
Mar 3, 2026 · 29:49
Why You Feel So Much in Your Marriage Self-confidence and emotional safety for wives walking on eggshells Have you ever wondered: Why do I feel everything so deeply? Why did that…
Feb 24, 2026 · 15:01
Your Selflessness Might Be Fear: Why Christian Wives Walking on Eggshells Don’t Feel Worthy Christian marriage | walking on eggshells | self-confidence | boundaries without guilt…
Feb 20, 2026 · 15:54
If you constantly feel stretched thin, behind, or quietly resentful of how your time disappears… this episode is for you. So many Christian wives are living in reaction mode —…
Feb 17, 2026 · 17:37
In this episode, I teach you how to intentionally cultivate thoughts that create self-confidence, emotional safety, and a stronger marriage — instead of living at the mercy of…
Feb 10, 2026 · 22:18
What if who you are isn’t the problem in your marriage —but the asset God intentionally placed there? In this episode, I’m talking to the Christian wife who has learned to…
Feb 3, 2026 · 15:43
Episode Show Notes The Worthy Wife Podcast Why your brain isn’t the problem—and how accepting your humanity builds spiritual confidence One of the greatest gifts I ever gave…
Jan 27, 2026 · 21:54
Stop Abandoning Yourself: Peace in the Empty Nest Begins Here The empty nest is often described as a season of freedom. But for many women, it feels more like an unsettling…
Jan 20, 2026 · 11:53
Many Christian women struggle with acknowledging what God has done—and is doing—in their lives. We downplay our gifts. We minimize our growth. We call it humility—but often, it’s…
Jan 13, 2026 · 8:39
Biblical Peace, Emotional Safety, and Boundaries Without Guilt for Christian Wives Show Notes For many Christian wives, “keeping the peace” feels like the loving, faithful thing…
Jan 6, 2026 · 22:36
New Year’s Resolutions, God-Given Desires, and the Goals We’re Afraid to Admit We Want Should Christian women set goals? (I love this episode so much) Is it okay to want more —…
Dec 30, 2025 · 19:13
As this year comes to a close, I want to talk about something many Christian wives quietly wrestle with: worthiness. So many women live as though their value is tied to…
Dec 23, 2025 · 16:02
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Dec 16, 2025 · 24:03
Are you actually having any fun this Christmas? As Christian women—especially wives, mothers, and keepers of the emotional atmosphere—we’ve been told (directly or indirectly)…
Dec 9, 2025 · 22:49
In this episode, I share how Christian wives can finally experience the peaceful, joyful Christmas they’ve been longing for — not the one tradition and family expectations…
Dec 2, 2025 · 13:30
In today’s episode, I share how I spent years misusing Scripture and shrinking myself inside my marriage—all because of the messages Christian women were taught 35 years ago…
Nov 25, 2025 · 16:47
Marriage & Self-Confidence - You are not a Burden In today’s episode of The Worthy Wife, we talk about the identity-level pain behind the thought “I don’t want to be a burden.”…
Nov 18, 2025 · 12:17
“Am I in a Toxic Marriage? Understanding God’s Design, Your Worth, and Your Calling” In this episode of The Worthy Wife, we talk about one of the most tender and confusing…
Nov 11, 2025 · 26:37
Are you still longing for that feeling of being fully accepted for who you are in your marriage? In today's episode I will help you uncover where that feeling is coming from and…
Nov 4, 2025 · 12:23
Have you ever felt like you’re walking on eggshells in your marriage — doing your best to keep the peace, hold everything together, and make everyone else happy… but feeling a…
Oct 28, 2025 · 9:31
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Oct 21, 2025 · 10:59
Can You Trust What You Want? When Delighting in God Shapes Your Desires When I first learned that God gives us “the desires of our heart,” I used to think that meant if I behaved…
Oct 14, 2025 · 10:38
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Oct 7, 2025 · 20:15
💔 Episode Show Notes Marriage Idolatry: 3 Ways We Place Our Husband Above God (and How to Stop) Sometimes, as wives, we place such high value on keeping our marriage intact that…
Sep 30, 2025 · 14:37
Have you ever longed to feel more loved and cherished in your marriage? In this episode of The Worthy Wife, I’m leaning into that tender place where our hearts feel the most…
Sep 23, 2025 · 8:05
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Sep 15, 2025 · 16:34
Have you ever felt misunderstood when you said “no” to something in order to follow God’s call on your life? Maybe others thought you were selfish, arrogant, or not a team…
Sep 8, 2025 · 18:30
Are you exhausted from trying to earn love, approval, or acceptance — even in your closest relationships? In this episode we’re talking about the heavy weight of performance and…
Sep 1, 2025 · 14:21
Do You Wish You Had More Self-Confidence in Your Marriage? Episode Summary: It’s our one-year anniversary — and some exciting changes are on the horizon! We’re getting ready for…
Aug 25, 2025 · 11:14
Have you ever felt like you’ve lost yourself in your marriage? Maybe for years you’ve gone along just to keep the peace, or you’ve shaped your life around your husband’s…
Aug 18, 2025 · 14:44
Do you ever feel like your value has dropped because of weight gain, aging, depression, or even your husband’s choices? Or maybe you’ve felt the opposite — like you’re more…
Aug 11, 2025 · 11:27
So often as Christian women; wives and or mothers, we become anxious and question our value when others express an angry emotional response. What would it be like to be so well…
Aug 4, 2025 · 19:29
Hi Ladies For those who feel hurt or broken hearted over a lack of support or if you struggle to feel safe and appreciated; this podcast is for you!! I have a quick guide that…
Jul 28, 2025 · 22:26
Hi Ladies, This episode is here to gently remind you of what matters most: grounding yourself in the truth of who God is and how deeply He loves you. When you’re rooted in His…
Jul 21, 2025 · 14:55
Noticing our thoughts is one of the ways we reflect our Creator. God didn’t make us merely instinctual—He made us conscious, capable, and creative. We’ve been given the…
Jul 14, 2025 · 20:05
HI Everyone, I trust that God is strengthening you and emboldening you to live in the victorious life of Jesus right now. For those of you who are feeling tired and perhaps have…
Jul 7, 2025 · 24:27
Have we confused morality for the true Gospel message? I thought that it would be good to examine what might be happening in the hearts of our adult children when we see them…
Jun 30, 2025 · 21:29
Hello and welcome to the podcast!! It's how I seem to start every episode, but today's episode seems special some how. MY passion in my own life and my hope for you, is that you…
Jun 23, 2025 · 26:28
If this episode encouraged you, I’d love to hear from you. Message me with your story or leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. If you are interested in learning more…
Jun 16, 2025 · 21:19
Don't get me wrong, marriage is a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman, so what had me even considering whether I would stay or leave what I believed was a difficult…
Jun 9, 2025 · 24:41
One of the most painful moments for a parent is when they realize that their adult child isn't just pulling away but that they don't want you in their life right now. What should…
Jun 2, 2025 · 22:00
Hey friends, today I am sharing with you a few thoughts about unconditional love as well as scripture that helps us begin to ponder the depth of God's love for us; and can we…
May 26, 2025 · 20:46
Hey friends, I am so happy to be sharing this episode with you today! Do you find it easier to be kind, open-minded, and patient with a stranger than with your own adult child?…
May 19, 2025 · 14:32
Hi Friends, are you struggling with wanting to do a thing but feel doubt or shame about it? What if you did what you really wanted to do and stopped listening to your, or anyone…
May 12, 2025 · 16:11
One of the best things about having a relationship with God is that He speaks to us personally, right where we are at. This week I will challenge the status quo of many Christian…
May 5, 2025 · 14:38
In this episode I share with you what it means to be rooted in Christ and enjoying Him. It doesn't take anything fancy or time consuming like those two hour salon appointments…
Apr 28, 2025 · 22:14
Have you ever been given the cold shoulder by someone you love? Maybe your spouse, adult child, or a close friend has used silence to control or punish you—and it feels like…
Apr 21, 2025 · 26:35
Do you ever feel left out of the loop when it comes to the finances in your marriage? Like you don’t make the money, so you don’t have a say? In this episode, we’re breaking down…
Apr 14, 2025 · 15:32
Are you feeling resistance from your children—or even your spouse—as you step into leadership or obedience to God’s call on your life? In today’s episode, I’m talking to every…
Apr 7, 2025 · 16:54
Are you still leading your adult children—or have you unknowingly stepped down? In this episode, we explore what it means to stay rooted in your God-given role as a mother and…
Mar 31, 2025 · 16:08
Find out how you can have better relationships with others and what impact your thoughts have on those relationships. I am really happy to be sharing this episode with you today…
Mar 24, 2025 · 15:32
Do you feel anxious or guilty when someone is upset with you? Do you struggle with people-pleasing and avoiding conflict? In this episode of Mind Management for Christian…
Mar 17, 2025 · 20:07
Do you downplay your role in managing your home—especially when it comes to finances? In this episode, my special guest, Stephanie No, helps me explore what it means to embrace…
Mar 10, 2025 · 21:44
Ok I can tell that this is going to be one of my favorite podcasts when I look back and see the humble beginnings of this grand adventure God has taken me on. Today's episode is…
Mar 6, 2025 · 15:28
Hey friends, Do you feel emotionally drained, stuck in negative feelings, or unsure how to handle your emotions in a healthy way? Many Christian wives struggle with suppressing…
Feb 24, 2025 · 18:48
You’re not “just a housewife”—you’re the one at the helm, guiding your family with wisdom, vision, and love. Many Christian housewives feel unseen or undervalued in their role,…
Feb 17, 2025 · 21:51
I am not sure what you think of when you here the word boundaries. I used to think that having boundaries was about drawing lines in the sand or creating rules for other people,…
Feb 10, 2025 · 24:20
Knowing our personal infinite value is simply foundational in our own lives and our walk with Jesus, and equally important in our marriages and personal relationships. I look…
Feb 3, 2025 · 19:41
Hi Ladies, Well sometimes it just needs to be said out loud, You are Infinitely valuable!! You are so incredibly valuable, there is no way to calculate your worth. I hope that…
Jan 27, 2025 · 15:27
HI Friends, How many nights have you laid awake wrestling and wishing that you and your spouse or you and your work partner could just agree and get on the same page. This…
Jan 20, 2025 · 21:45
HI Everyone! This was a really fun episode to share with you. Have you ever noticed what happens when you say words out loud and write them down. This is not a name it and claim…
Jan 13, 2025 · 16:45
HI Ladies, this episode has deep meaning for me. The last thing that I would ever want to do through this podcast is give you the idea that by adding some of the tools that I…
Jan 6, 2025 · 25:21
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Dec 30, 2024 · 18:52
How are your belief muscles? Todays episode is about how we can practice believing. 4 doable steps to increase our belief. I have found that believing takes practice! We seem to…
Dec 23, 2024 · 30:52
Hey ladies, I am so happy to be able to share a new podcast again with you this week! In this episode I share 3 powerful tips to experiencing peace. Much like stirring up our…
Dec 16, 2024 · 19:05
This episode deals with one of my favorite topics, not because I can do it so well but because I am the beneficiary of the unconditional love that God has shown to me!…
Dec 9, 2024 · 14:10
Today's episode is all about how what you think about someone else will create the basis for your relationship with them. You can choose to love in every situation, even in the…
Dec 2, 2024 · 13:53
Hi ladies, this episode is all about how to allow people to "not get you" and your decisions It's totally fine to be misunderstood and it isn't always necessary to explain…
Nov 25, 2024 · 18:11
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Nov 18, 2024 · 14:52
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Nov 10, 2024 · 27:43
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