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How do you get kids to help out—ever, at all—without default resistance that makes it feel like it's not worth the trouble of your having asked?
Kids *should* contribute to their families' lives without their parents resorting to nagging or threats. Kids in other cultures, we are told, participate willingly and fully. Why does this seem so hard for so many of us?
We discuss:
Whether "chores" framing is part of the problem
How gender roles shape the expectations of who's helping
Whether they have to like participating for it to matter
Why we seem to find this harder than our parents did
Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:
Susan Newman for Psychology Today: Raising Baby Hunter-Gatherer Style
Jennifer Katzenstein for Johns Hopkins Medicine Wellness and Prevention blog: How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores
Reem Raouda for CNBC Make It: I’ve studied over 200 kids—parents who have an easy time getting their children to listen never use these 5 ‘toxic’ phrases
Amy Sutherland for the NYT: What Shamu Taught Me About a Healthy Marriage
Frank Bruni for the NYT: Tolstoy and Miss Daisy
Deborah Gilboa: GET THE BEHAVIOR YOU WANT...WITHOUT BEING THE PARENT YOU HATE!
Our Fresh Take with Michaeleen Doucleff, author of HUNT, GATHER, PARENT
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