#6: 'You Are Not Stuck Until You Stop'

What do a grandmother's red dress, a muddy river lot, and an old International Travelall have to teach us about confidence, hard work, connection, and legacy?

In this episode, I talk with Amy from Iowa about the life lessons she learned from her grandparents — lessons that have shaped the way she leads, works, serves, and shows up for the people around her.

Amy shares the story of her grandmother walking into a room in a red dress and teaching her that if you choose to be somewhere, you should know why you're there. She also tells the story of her grandfather teaching her how to "drive in the snow" on a muddy lot after a flood — and reminding her that you are not stuck until you stop.

Along the way, Amy reflects on growing up as an introvert, learning to lead in agriculture, building trust in a family business, becoming a grandmother herself, and understanding that real connection is not just about whose name is in your book — it is about whose book you are in.

In this episode, we explore:

• The confidence and dignity Amy learned from her grandmother
• Why it matters to know your purpose when you walk into a room
• The power of keeping forward momentum when life swerves
• What grandparents can offer through presence, support, and affirmation
• How hard work, trust, and connection shape leadership
• Why meaningful relationships are built through mutual care, not just networking

Sincere thanks to Lee Williams for his fantastic production of this and every episode of Perennial Pen.

Reflection question:
Where in your life do you need to keep moving — even if the road is muddy or uncertain?

More about Amy:

Amy's LinkedIn profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amy-asmus-78a1a241/ 

Asmus Farm Supply: https://www.afschem.com/ 

Call to action:

If you or someone you know has a meaningful, life-affirming story to share on Perennial Pen, email me at nate@silvermaplestrategies.com. I respond to every message personally!