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The Angry Therapist Podcast

The Angry Therapist Podcast

I Peed On Myself (And Realized Something Important)

The Angry Therapist Podcast · May 13, 2026 · 19:11

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This episode starts with a story about peeing on himself… and somehow turns into a conversation about masculinity, emotional safety, relationships, and rebuilding love after loss.



John records this one off the cuff from a coffee shop in Costa Rica and reflects on the traits he once saw as flaws, the surprising depth that can happen in men’s groups, and a relationship question that’s changing the way he shows up in marriage. He also shares why he believes some relationships need to “die” in order for something more honest to be rebuilt.



In this episode:

• Why impulsiveness and intensity may not be the problem

• The question John asked a men’s group: “How is your heart?”

• How emotional safety changes the way men open up

• Why some long-term relationships stop evolving

• “What I need” vs “what the relationship needs”

• Rebuilding a marriage after loss and change



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🎙️ More about John:

📘 Pre order my new book, Love Hard On Purpose. Toss the blueprints. Build something honest. https://a.co/d/031PzkW4

John’s book publishing company: Soulprint https://www.soulprintmedia.co

📘 Read John’s book in progress Sh*t Your Therapist Would Never Tell You on John’s SubStack ⁠HERE⁠

If you’re ready for deeper work, the Secure Self course is available HERE

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