Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men and women spill their unfiltered dating stories, from the spark of chemistry to splitting the bill awkwardness, the search for a nurse or a purse, ghosting in those cringe -worthy 3 a .m. texts. We'll explore attachment styles, navigating the dating apps, and the steamy side of sex and intimacy. And when things get rough, we'll bring in the experts to throw us a lifeline. I'm your...
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Sep 29, 2026 · 41:45
Two people can share the same first date—and leave with completely different impressions. Susan sits down with Joy Wayne, founder of Palm Beach Introduction, to reveal what…
Sep 22, 2026 · 37:49
Is lasting love something we find—or a skill we learn? Susan sits down with Belle Gayer, author of "Are Relationships for Suckers?", to explore the lessons she has learned from…
Sep 15, 2026 · 46:47
Would you put a beautiful steak in the microwave? Then why do we do it to love? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes back elite Palm Beach matchmaker,…
Sep 8, 2026 · 1:00:59
“He’s a narcissist.” “She’s borderline.” “My ex is toxic.” Mental health terminology has become part of modern dating—but are we actually recognizing disorders, or simply…
Sep 1, 2026 · 45:17
That irresistible spark may feel like love—but sometimes it’s your nervous system recognizing something familiar. Susan Shoer talks with Pavini Moray, PhD, somatic coach and…
Aug 25, 2026 · 43:48
Can a marriage thrive when one partner is monogamous and the other is polyamorous? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Courtney and Nate, The…
Aug 18, 2026 · 50:48
Why do two people who genuinely care about each other so often end up feeling misunderstood? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with relationship and…
Aug 11, 2026 · 57:16
Are dating apps on life support? After years of endless swiping, ghosting, and burnout, more singles are asking a different question: Is there a better way to meet people? In…
Aug 4, 2026 · 40:47
Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating…
Jul 28, 2026 · 53:11
Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and…
Jul 21, 2026 · 44:49
Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making. In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray,…
Jul 14, 2026 · 50:15
What really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down…
Jul 7, 2026 · 1:01:28
Thirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights…
Jun 30, 2026 · 39:20
Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and…
Jun 23, 2026 · 1:00:58
What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener? This week, host Susan Shore sits down with…
Jun 16, 2026 · 50:38
A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author…
Jun 9, 2026 · 47:44
What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer…
Jun 2, 2026 · 38:57
From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets…
May 26, 2026 · 39:40
Sugar dating. Luxury lifestyles. Clear expectations. Transactional romance… or just radical honesty about modern relationships? In this episode of Dateless in Delray , Susan sits…
May 19, 2026 · 1:02:39
What really happens behind the velvet curtain of a “sugar” relationship—and why are more people quietly stepping into this world than ever before? In this provocative and…
May 12, 2026 · 49:38
What does emotional intelligence have to do with dating? Quite a lot. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Alla Esther Levy—Certified Emotional…
May 5, 2026 · 45:24
What happens when the love story you believed in turns out to be something else entirely? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Dianne Harris—coach,…
Apr 28, 2026 · 45:49
What makes love last? Susan Shoer sits down with Elyse Ryan — founder of Elyse Ryan Jewelry and host of Stacked — to talk about long marriage, ambition, intimacy, and evolving…
Apr 21, 2026 · 47:07
What happens when the person producing fairy-tale romances for television has to rewrite her own love story? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Julie…
Apr 14, 2026 · 33:05
Sex therapist and Please Me podcast host Eve Hall joins Susan Shoer for a candid conversation about desire, mismatched libidos, midlife sexuality, and consensual non-monogamy.…
Mar 31, 2026 · 55:25
Is speed dating the antidote to swipe fatigue? Susan Shoer talks with longtime speed dating host Daniel Gudema about the history, evolution, and surprising effectiveness of live…
Mar 25, 2026 · 33:33
Are dating apps making connection harder instead of easier? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer talks with Jeff Wulkan, founder of Plus 1, a platform designed to…
Mar 10, 2026 · 47:14
What do parenting skills and dating skills have in common? More than you think. Susan Shoer sits down with Jamie Levine — founder of Team Esteem and host of the Mom Esteem…
Mar 3, 2026 · 49:21
What happens after the podcast microphones turn off and real dating life continues? In this Dateless in Delray follow-up episode, Susan Shoer reunites with Stephanie Xintas and…
Feb 24, 2026 · 41:27
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, I sit down with seasoned astrologer Susan Reynolds, who brings over 40 years of experience to the table. We explore how the stars influence…
Feb 17, 2026 · 1:01:52
In Palm Beach Unfiltered: Old Money, New Rules & Modern Matchmaking, we dive even deeper with Palm Beach matchmaker Rose Lambert. Building on our previous conversation, this…
Feb 10, 2026 · 48:53
What happens when a relationship expert experiences the kind of heartbreak she never saw coming? In this deeply honest episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with…
Feb 3, 2026 · 50:24
What if better dating isn’t about swiping more—but connecting smarter? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer explores modern love at the intersection of human…
Jan 27, 2026 · 40:25
What happens when two singles are dating from very different playbooks—but hoping for something real? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Carrie…
Jan 20, 2026 · 46:19
Dating can be exhausting—the apps, the expectations, the overthinking, and the moments that make you wonder why you even left the house. In this episode of Dateless in Delray,…
Jan 6, 2026 · 58:29
Dating has always reflected the times we live in—from blind dates and advice columns to apps, algorithms, and artificial intelligence. In this episode of Dateless in Delray,…
Dec 30, 2025 · 35:38
Betrayal doesn’t just break trust in a relationship—it can shake your sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. In this powerful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits…
Dec 19, 2025 · 41:54
What if the secret to better dating—and deeper relationships—has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with communication? In this episode of Dateless in Delray,…
Dec 9, 2025 · 52:05
In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with powerhouse mentor, bestselling author, and faith-driven entrepreneur Kim S. Anderson. From her early…
Nov 25, 2025 · 51:55
In this special crossover episode, Dateless in Delray teams up with Your Mental Highness as Susan Shoer sits down with psychologist Dr. Janné Lomasky to explore what really…
Nov 18, 2025 · 53:19
In this eye-opening episode, Susan Shoer sits down with Joshua Shea, pornography addiction and betrayal trauma coach, to explore how hidden compulsive behavior can quietly…
Nov 11, 2025 · 56:00
This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes Dr. Orest Komarnyckyj, host of Old Guy Talks To Me and founder of Hold the Door Coaching (drorestk.com), for a bold and…
Oct 30, 2025 · 44:30
This week on Dateless in Delray , we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker , Human…
Oct 21, 2025 · 40:01
What if the secret to finding love isn’t about looking out there—but coming home to yourself? In this transformative episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Olivia…
Oct 14, 2025 · 36:08
In this special full-circle episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Brian Howie—host of The Great Love Debate podcast, owner of PodPopuli, and her very first guest 42…
Oct 7, 2025 · 50:44
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer sits down with debut author Stephanie Todd, whose novel Love. Lies. and Libidos blurs the line between fiction and lived…
Sep 30, 2025 · 38:19
Endless swiping leaving you burned out? Video dating might be the spark you’ve been missing. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Zach Schleien shares how Spark is changing the…
Sep 23, 2025 · 53:43
What happens when you mix wanderlust with the world of dating? You get adventure, laughter, and stories you definitely won’t find on a resort brochure. In this episode of…
Sep 10, 2025 · 1:01:55
Is love really a three-course meal? Matchmakers Jessica Fass and Brian Bachow of Fass Pass to Love join Susan to share how patience, coaching, and confidence can transform dating…
Sep 2, 2025 · 40:23
What if the key to deeper intimacy isn’t a new partner, a bigger spark, or even better communication—but mindfulness? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller…
Aug 26, 2025 · 53:49
Dating is complicated enough—but what happens when ADHD enters the mix? In this eye-opening and refreshingly honest episode, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with ADHD Life & Mindset…
Aug 20, 2025 · 45:28
What happens when a corporate professional leaves behind the boardroom and reinvents himself as a male escort? In this unfiltered conversation, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with…
Aug 12, 2025 · 16:27
After 33 conversations with daters, coaches, therapists, and experts, I’m flying solo for Episode 34—and pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to host a dating…
Jul 29, 2025 · 53:43
What if your best relationship is still ahead of you? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Ken Blackman—former Silicon Valley engineer…
Jul 22, 2025 · 35:20
What does intermittent fasting have to do with flirting? More than you think. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Steve Feingold returns to share his personal…
Jul 15, 2025 · 34:10
Ken O’Brien knows how to close a deal—and he’s still searching for the one that truly moves him. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Ken, a…
Jul 8, 2025 · 37:05
What does your outfit say before you even open your mouth? In this stylishly honest episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by celebrity stylist, Delray…
Jun 26, 2025 · 18:16
Recorded live at Pod-A-Palooza in Boca Raton, in this abbreviated episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer takes her show on the road, with matchmaking expert…
Jun 17, 2025 · 39:27
Think your best sex is behind you? Think again. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer gets cheeky and candid with Suzanne Noble, author, media maven, and…
Jun 10, 2025 · 39:47
What if the secret to better dating isn’t in the apps—but in how you feel about yourself? In this empowering episode of Dateless in Delray , host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by…
Jun 3, 2025 · 52:28
In this unflinching episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Dr. Jeff Segal to explore what really happens when long-term marriages end—especially…
May 27, 2025 · 37:00
What if your most painful emotions were actually the key to deeper connection and lasting love? In this soul-stirring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer…
May 19, 2025 · 44:26
Imagine if you stop swiping for “the one” and start consciously designing the relationship that actually fits you, In this bold and enlightening episode of Dateless in Delray,…
Apr 24, 2025 · 50:57
What if your desire wasn’t broken—but just buried under years of shame, stress, or misinformation? In this pulse-quickening episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer…
Apr 15, 2025 · 41:55
What if dating isn’t about finding “the one,” but becoming more of yourself? In this soulful episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Human Potential…
Apr 8, 2025 · 40:45
What if the key to understanding love, lust, and infidelity lies not in your heart—but in your hormones? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with…
Apr 1, 2025 · 37:05
What do bad dating profiles and bad lighting have in common? Everything. In this eye-opening episode, host Susan Heller Shoer shines the spotlight on retired media professor…
Mar 25, 2025 · 35:03
Maybe you should talk to someone. If you've ever heard that advice, this episode of Dateless in Delray is for you! Host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with the "Not-So-Filtered…
Mar 19, 2025 · 41:12
In this lively episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer reconnects with fellow Sharon, Massachusetts native, Donna Star—a dynamic Executive Coach who helps…
Mar 13, 2025 · 41:13
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Dr. Janné Lomasky, a licensed psychologist, co-author of To Stay or Not To Stay?: A Self-Help Workbook…
Mar 6, 2025 · 45:02
Trying to be smart in your search for love? Join host Susan Heller Shoer in this episode of Dateless in Delray, where we get schooled by Janet Armstrong, a retired elementary…
Feb 21, 2025 · 59:48
This week, Dateless in Delray goes on location to a vibrant houseboat community of Sausalito, California, where love and relationships take on unconventional forms. From Living…
Jan 28, 2025 · 46:38
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV.…
Jan 21, 2025 · 39:09
In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom…
Jan 16, 2025 · 44:29
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of…
Dec 31, 2024 · 42:04
Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller…
Dec 24, 2024 · 46:10
In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over…
Dec 17, 2024 · 45:52
Grab a glass of wine and eavesdrop on girl talk, with Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World. Host Susan Heller Shoer teams up with her friend and fellow…
Dec 10, 2024 · 43:29
Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? In Match Point: Playing to Win with Professional Matchmaking, legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman (julieferman.com) joins host Susan…
Nov 27, 2024 · 39:34
In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere , creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject)…
Nov 19, 2024 · 40:17
In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist…
Nov 12, 2024 · 33:11
In this episode we explore the art of Conscious Coupling: Dating with Clarity and Confidence. Certified CoActive and Professional Coach Darla Beam ( darlabeam.com ; IG…
Nov 5, 2024 · 36:16
What really makes someone irresistible? In this episode, we study up on The Science of Sexy, with a closer look at fascinating research on how brain chemistry shapes attraction.…
Oct 29, 2024 · 36:26
Online dating—exciting or exhausting? In this episode, Susan Heller Shoer dives headfirst into the world of dating apps and profiles. We’re talking deceptive photos, scammers,…
Oct 22, 2024 · 39:25
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer tackles one of the most critical parts of modern dating—spotting red flags and knowing when to move forward with…
Oct 15, 2024 · 32:00
In the debut episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer—a writer, real estate agent, and somewhat reluctant expert on dating in Delray Beach, the heart of single life…
Sep 24, 2024 · 1:30
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