What You Risk When You Admit Your Fantasy to Your Partner
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling · Jun 2, 2026 · 47:21
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling · Jun 2, 2026 · 47:21
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If telling your partner the truth about a fantasy could change how they see you, this episode is for you.
A fantasy.
A pause.
A look on their face.
And suddenly, the moment is bigger than what you said.
If this is you:
• You start softening, editing, or managing the truth before you even say it
• Your partner’s silence feels almost impossible to sit in
• You worry sexual honesty could expose more than desire
• You do not know when disclosure is intimacy and when it starts feeling dangerous
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife to talk about what sexual honesty can expose in a relationship.
Because the moment you tell the truth is often the moment you find out what the relationship can hold.
REFERENCES/RESOURCES
www.alternativescounseling.com
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CREDITS
“We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani and Robyn Jaenchen.
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