EP 679: 37, Unfiltered: 10 Lies Dating Culture Told Me (That I Had to Unlearn)

For years I bought into a script I didn't even write, play hard to get, shrink yourself, don't be "too much," wait for love to just happen to you. I lived by these rules and they kept me stuck on repeat, dating the wrong people and wondering why nothing changed. In this episode, part three of my 37 Unfiltered birthday series, I'm getting brutally honest about the 10 (plus a bonus) lies dating culture sold me, and exactly what I had to unlearn to finally build the secure, easy relationship I have today.

Inside the Episode:

• The lie about playing it cool that actually trains you to attract emotionally unavailable people, and what securely attached dating looks like instead
• Why "you just haven't met the right person yet" is one of the most dangerous things dating culture ever told you (and what it's really protecting you from facing)
• The dream partner list I made in my 20s, why it made me feel icky, and the new list I want you to build instead

I'm unpacking all 10 lies, the ones about your body, your success, your emotions, your timeline, plus a bonus one that might sting a little. This episode is your permission slip to stop performing for love and start becoming the kind of secure that attracts it.

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