[306] The Hard Part of Asking for More

I usually consider myself a pretty positive person.

The life happens for me, not to me kind.

And yet… 2026 came in hot.

In this episode, I’m sharing a real, honest reflection on what happens after you ask for more — more growth, more peace, more freedom, more expansion — and why it so often feels harder before it gets better.

Because here’s the part we don’t talk about enough:

You don’t just get the thing you want.

You have to become the person who can hold it.

And that process?

It can be frustrating.

It can challenge your habits, your boundaries, and the stories you tell yourself when things don’t go as planned.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why resistance often shows up right after you declare what you want

• How easy it is to let a hard moment turn into a story about your future

• Why emotional regulation matters more than pushing harder

• How preparing for what you want changes everything

• Why creating space might be the most important growth strategy of all
  

This conversation is for you if:

• You asked for more… and things got uncomfortable fast

• You’re wondering if the hard part means you’re doing something wrong

• You’re learning how to protect your peace while still honoring your goals

• You want permission to create space, slow down, and do growth differently
  

Take a breath.

You’re not behind.

You’re becoming.

🎧 Listen in.