Modern dating doesn’t have to be confusing! Join Matthew Hussey—New York Times bestselling author, world-renowned dating coach, and host of the #1 YouTube channel for relationship advice—for deep, funny, and brutally honest conversations on everything love, confidence, and relationships. He dives deep into helping people transform the three most important relationships we have in life: the relationship with others, with ourselves, and with life itself. Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD i...
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Sep 28, 2026 · 14:00
What do people who are naturally good at flirting do differently? It’s easy to assume they’re more confident, more attractive, or simply better at knowing what to say. But after…
Sep 25, 2026 · 14:49
What if the reason your heartbreak isn’t getting better isn’t because you haven’t tried hard enough to move on, but because there’s a part of it you still haven’t allowed…
Sep 21, 2026 · 18:41
Have you ever noticed that the moment someone starts pulling away, you suddenly want them more? Maybe they’re taking longer to reply. Their texts are getting shorter. Or they…
Sep 18, 2026 · 17:17
Have you ever realized that you’re the one keeping a relationship alive? You’re the one who reaches out. The one who checks in. The one who remembers, helps, gives, and shows up.…
Sep 11, 2026 · 17:19
There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with…
Sep 7, 2026 · 17:20
Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over? You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question…
Sep 4, 2026 · 16:08
Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?” Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but…
Aug 28, 2026 · 14:13
Have you ever wondered why you can feel so much chemistry with someone who's inconsistent, unavailable, or clearly wrong for you... yet struggle to feel the same spark with…
Aug 24, 2026 · 27:11
Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget: “I feel like I’m not worthy.” Life had given her plenty of reasons…
Aug 21, 2026 · 19:36
Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex…
Aug 14, 2026 · 12:12
It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for. The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the…
Aug 10, 2026 · 24:38
After so many requests, Audrey's finally back! In this week's episode, she's answering some of your biggest relationship questions. We talk about rebuilding trust after…
Aug 7, 2026 · 17:56
"Where can I actually meet someone?" It's one of the most common dating questions, and one that's become even more frustrating in the age of dating apps and endless swiping. In…
Jul 31, 2026 · 12:11
Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted. The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the…
Jul 24, 2026 · 19:08
Some people stay with us long after they're gone. Not because they were the right person, but because we remember how they made us feel. In this episode, I answer a question from…
Jul 20, 2026 · 16:44
I still remember the worst heartbreak of my life. I remember thinking I'd never feel okay again. I remember searching for answers. And I remember realizing that knowing what to…
Jul 17, 2026 · 8:37
There's a particular kind of heartbreak that comes from seeing your ex move on before you have. It can leave you wondering what they saw in someone else that they didn't see in…
Jul 14, 2026 · 16:36
Heartbreak has a way of changing everything. It can make the world feel unfamiliar, leave you questioning yourself, and convince you that no one could possibly understand the…
Jul 13, 2026 · 22:20
Heartbreak has a way of convincing us that what we're feeling is unlike anything anyone else has ever experienced. But not all heartbreak is the same. The pain of losing someone…
Jul 10, 2026 · 18:00
Worried that sleeping with someone will change the way they feel about you? In this episode, I tackle one of the biggest sources of anxiety in dating: when to have sex, how to…
Jul 3, 2026 · 15:47
If you've ever felt like you're running out of time to find love, you're not alone. It's easy to look around and feel like everyone else is moving forward while you're standing…
Jun 29, 2026 · 16:55
Have you ever convinced yourself that one dating mistake cost you someone who could have been really special? Maybe you replayed the texts. The conversation. The moment you wish…
Jun 26, 2026 · 16:54
One of the hardest things about people-pleasing is the fear of what might happen if you stop. What if someone gets upset? What if they pull away? What if the relationship…
Jun 22, 2026 · 17:26
More and more people are saying the same thing: they're tired of the apps and want to meet someone in real life. The problem is that after years of outsourcing the earliest…
Jun 15, 2026 · 14:01
One of the biggest misconceptions about family estrangement is that people do it lightly. They don't. And for many, the reality is far more painful… The truth is, most people…
Jun 12, 2026 · 23:17
For years, when I signed copies of Get the Guy , I would write the same message: Never settle. I still believe we should never settle for bad behavior, mistreatment, or a…
Jun 8, 2026 · 19:22
Most people spend years trying to change their lives by making dramatic, big moves. Yet even after those big moves, they find themselves facing the same frustrations, the same…
Jun 7, 2026 · 28:31
Red flags get all the attention in dating—but what about the warning signs that aren't dealbreakers? In this episode, Matthew and Stephen break down the difference between red…
Jun 1, 2026 · 15:59
Have you ever wondered if you ended a relationship too soon? In this week’s episode, I share the story of a woman who found herself trapped in a cycle that many of us know all…
May 29, 2026 · 12:23
Sometimes attraction fades not because there wasn’t chemistry… but because we accidentally kill the tension too early. In this episode, Matthew shares 3 common mistakes that can…
May 25, 2026 · 18:22
Modern dating leads to burnout for a lot of people, especially those who use the apps. In my brand new video, I break down why so many people feel burnt out, disillusioned, and…
May 23, 2026 · 33:49
In this episode, Matthew and Stephen Hussey break down the real reasons this happens in dating and relationships—from emotional unavailability and low self-worth to the ways we…
May 18, 2026 · 18:08
What if one tiny dating decision was secretly shaping how people see your value? In this week’s episode, I dive into one of the internet’s most heated modern dating debates: the…
May 15, 2026 · 15:23
In this episode, we explore one of the biggest questions we face in love: is finding a meaningful relationship about meeting the right person … or about becoming truly ready for…
May 11, 2026 · 18:02
Have you ever stared at a text message for 20 minutes trying to decode it and then another 20 minutes trying to figure out how to respond to it? In this week’s episode, I dive…
May 8, 2026 · 31:35
What do you do when someone breaks your trust—but you still like them? In this episode, Matthew and Audrey talk about how to handle trust issues in dating, including what to do…
May 4, 2026 · 17:03
In a world of endless dating options, it’s never been harder to know if you’re choosing the right person. If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking signals, questioning…
May 1, 2026 · 21:55
Most of us have done this… We start to question whether someone is actually right for us—but the chemistry is there, it feels good, and we push those doubts to the side. In this…
Apr 27, 2026 · 14:35
A viewer recently asked me: Is there a way to spot an avoidant before you fall in love with them? The truth is, early avoidant behavior can quietly trigger a sense of…
Apr 24, 2026 · 12:54
What if your looks aren’t the real reason you’re struggling in dating? In this episode, we unpack the belief that you’re “not attractive enough” and how that thought turns into a…
Apr 20, 2026 · 14:52
I’ve been making videos for nearly 20 years. If you’ve been here that whole time, thank you. But there’s a silent danger in doing this… It can't be the only thing you do to make…
Apr 17, 2026 · 18:46
Dating apps can make it feel like we’re competing with endless options… while somehow no one is actually trying. In this episode, Matthew explores the frustrating reality of…
Apr 13, 2026 · 13:54
This episode is unlike anything I’ve done on this channel before. It explores the lessons I’ve learned from my many visits to Japan, including my most recent trip last month.…
Apr 10, 2026 · 18:19
We often tell ourselves we’ll focus on love “when things calm down”… when we have more time, more energy, or a fresh start. But what if that moment never comes? In this episode,…
Apr 6, 2026 · 17:39
As many of you know, meeting Audrey has changed my life in so many meaningful ways. I’ve never felt happier or more fulfilled in a relationship. And because I talk about her so…
Apr 3, 2026 · 32:57
Many people think commitment is only about timing, but readiness for a relationship is really shaped by feeling truly seen, understood, and safe... In this conversation, Matthew…
Mar 30, 2026 · 12:18
Most people come to this channel looking for advice on love and romantic relationships. But today, we’re talking about something that I think is just as important: friendship. In…
Mar 27, 2026 · 24:53
It’s easy to feel discouraged when dating doesn’t go the way you hoped. A great date turns into silence. A real connection fizzles out. And over time, it can start to feel like,…
Mar 23, 2026 · 12:08
Do you ever watch ‘90s and ‘00s romcoms and wish dating still had that playful, flirty banter that seems to have disappeared with the rise of dating apps? Well… let’s bring back…
Mar 20, 2026 · 12:04
Texting can make or break the early stages of dating. One message can create excitement . . . while another can stall things completely. In this episode, Matthew shares 5…
Mar 16, 2026 · 12:30
Unfortunately, a lot of people are actually really bad at predicting what will make them happy long term. When it comes to dating, many people get stuck on a rigid “type” which…
Mar 13, 2026 · 48:01
Many people believe that finding the right partner will finally make them feel complete. But what if the real work begins before the relationship even starts? In this…
Mar 9, 2026 · 12:26
Early dating can feel magical, but it’s not always a reliable preview of what a relationship will actually be like. Sometimes, emotional availability in the early stages looks…
Mar 6, 2026 · 11:33
It’s easy to get swept up by chemistry and start investing in someone before they’ve actually shown they’re committed. When that happens, we don’t just lose perspective… we start…
Mar 2, 2026 · 11:54
Becoming a dad recently made something click for me that I’d been circling for years: Choosing the right partner might be the single most important decision you’ll ever make. It…
Feb 27, 2026 · 15:46
Why does confidence feel so fragile? You can get the date, enter a relationship, even achieve success in other areas of your life . . . and still feel like you’re “not good…
Feb 23, 2026 · 12:40
Do men change? I get asked this all the time . . . and the truth is more nuanced than the internet makes it sound. When I met my wife, I wasn’t looking for commitment. A couple…
Feb 20, 2026 · 28:12
Have you ever noticed the moment it happens? You meet someone, you’re fine… and then suddenly you really like them and you start editing yourself. You become agreeable. Overly…
Feb 16, 2026 · 12:08
I hear this all the time: “Matthew, they’re wonderful but they won’t let me in. The conversations stay shallow. They deflect when things get real. And no matter how safe I try to…
Feb 13, 2026 · 14:42
We often talk about how the right partner will elevate your best and soothe your worst. But what if you secretly feel like your best isn’t good enough . . . or that your worst…
Feb 11, 2026 · 53:20
Dating can burn you out . . . especially when you’ve been rejected, ghosted, or stuck in that exhausting loop where nothing ever turns into something real. In Part 2 of my…
Feb 9, 2026 · 13:51
When you’re ghosted, the silence feels intensely personal. In this new episode, I'm breaking down what’s really going on when someone ghosts: why it happens at different stages,…
Feb 6, 2026 · 12:14
Everyone wants to stand out on a first date… especially when it feels like the person across from you has endless options. But the real way to become unforgettable isn’t…
Feb 4, 2026 · 1:02:37
Work has a way of following us home—replaying that one frustrating meeting, stealing our attention from the people we love, and turning Sunday night into a countdown to stress.…
Feb 2, 2026 · 12:29
If dating apps have left you feeling judged, discouraged, or just tired of the whole process, this video is for you. A lot of the advice we hear sounds helpful on the surface,…
Jan 30, 2026 · 22:39
Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up? Of course you have. We all…
Jan 28, 2026 · 47:49
This week’s episode started as a quick 12-minute video about becoming a new dad . . . and became something way more raw. In it, Matthew talks about what surprised him, what…
Jan 26, 2026 · 13:06
Modern dating can mess with your head. You finally meet someone you like . . . and suddenly the pressure kicks in. You start overthinking texts, softening your boundaries, and…
Jan 23, 2026 · 24:06
What’s your biggest regret in life? Is it a mistake you continue to dwell on? A path you realize you should’ve taken? A person you wish you hadn’t given so much time to? And if…
Jan 21, 2026 · 56:17
Today’s episode is a proper grab bag—in the best way. If you’ve been feeling stuck on where you can actually meet people in real life, it explores the kinds of places that don’t…
Jan 19, 2026 · 14:57
Some big life changes don’t come with a plan. They just crack you open and make you see everything differently. Today’s unscripted episode is about what happens when priorities…
Jan 16, 2026 · 16:47
Narcissists walk among us . . . but what makes us stay with such people? In the beginning, sadly, many people fail to see the long-term damage a relationship with a narcissist…
Jan 14, 2026 · 45:57
If you’ve ever walked away from a relationship thinking, “I’m never doing that again,” you won’t want to miss this episode. Heartbreak has a way of creating rigid rules—what…
Jan 12, 2026 · 10:58
You open a dating app thinking, maybe this time will be different. Then it happens: ghosts, cancellations, silence, or that slow erosion of confidence these apps can create. If…
Jan 9, 2026 · 12:59
How many dates should you wait before going over to someone's house? If you're worried it's moving too quickly and you're becoming "like a couple" (or even just too sexual)…
Jan 7, 2026 · 43:18
In the first Love Life podcast of 2026, Matthew and Audrey are back for an honest conversation about simplifying your life and being more intentional about what—and who—you let…
Jan 5, 2026 · 14:55
What if the fastest way to meet someone this year isn’t trying harder—but stepping back? In this week’s episode, Matthew breaks down a counterintuitive idea that could completely…
Jan 2, 2026 · 20:38
When we meet someone we feel excited about, “love bombing” can feel like everything we’ve ever wanted. Someone we’re attracted to showering us with intensity and attention who is…
Dec 29, 2025 · 20:09
In this conversation on the Know Thyself podcast with André Duqum, Matthew explores why we so often mistake familiar patterns for healthy ones—and how our “normal” can quietly…
Dec 26, 2025 · 17:17
I’ve carefully designed these steps to address the stages you’ll go through. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope…
Dec 24, 2025 · 10:06
December can be a strangely emotional time—even when everything looks festive on the outside. In this podcast, Matthew revisits “Complicated Christmas,” a message created for…
Dec 22, 2025 · 11:42
Early dating has a sneaky way of turning us into versions of ourselves we don’t even like. You start off calm, confident, grounded . . . and suddenly you’re overthinking texts or…
Dec 19, 2025 · 24:47
We all know the feeling. We start speaking to or dating someone and we begin to get excited about them . . . but then as soon as we show interest, they start to pull away. This…
Dec 17, 2025 · 1:02:34
Long distance relationships can feel intoxicating. The late-night calls. The fantasy. The sense that if it weren’t for geography, this could really be something. But when does…
Dec 15, 2025 · 10:25
Breakups can flip your whole world upside down, and in this week’s video, Matthew and Jay Shetty get real about what those moments actually feel like. They discuss why healing…
Dec 12, 2025 · 12:48
Does it sometimes feel like men are afraid of commitment? You could be dating someone for a few months—and have a ton of chemistry and a great emotional connection—and yet, like…
Dec 10, 2025 · 42:43
There are breakups that hurt . . . and then there are the ones that feel like they’re splitting your life in two. In this episode, the Love Life Podcast team unpacks the kind of…
Dec 8, 2025 · 17:02
If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over someone who barely knows you exist, or clinging to a connection that’s all spark but no substance, this video with Lisa Bilyeu is…
Dec 5, 2025 · 15:52
When someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship.…
Dec 3, 2025 · 1:08:10
What if the first “fight” in a new relationship isn’t a red flag at all? Maybe it’s your first real chance to see how you both show up when things get real . . . and whether you…
Dec 1, 2025 · 11:15
Brave enough to date? Then you’ve almost definitely run into ghosting, inconsistency, or someone who disappears then pops back like nothing happened. It hurts the most when hope…
Nov 28, 2025 · 22:25
You’ve been seeing someone for months. They give you attention, consistency, and intimacy—but when it comes to commitment, they always have a reason why “now isn’t the right…
Nov 26, 2025 · 48:17
In this week’s Love Life Podcast episode, Matthew and Producer David dig into a big question: Is stoicism helping modern relationships . . . or shutting them down? They unpack…
Nov 24, 2025 · 11:52
Most people think attraction is all about chemistry or confidence, but they overlook one of the simplest tools we have: a well-placed compliment. One genuine line, said at the…
Nov 21, 2025 · 16:03
When you’re deep in a relationship, it can be hard to tell if you’re fighting for something worth saving—or holding on to something that’s slowly breaking you down. In this…
Nov 19, 2025 · 1:05:06
What if tiny habits could completely change your love life? In this week’s Love Life Podcast , we break down the small, everyday actions that quietly create more confidence, more…
Nov 17, 2025 · 12:17
This week’s episode looks at why even highly intuitive people can miss the signs of a partner living a double life. I share the story of a woman who spent 17 years in a marriage…
Nov 14, 2025 · 18:31
Ever feel like you’re stuck dating people who never fully show up? Maybe they’re avoidant, inconsistent, or just not ready for real commitment—yet somehow, you keep holding on,…
Nov 12, 2025 · 56:22
Is love really easier to find in Chicago than in Los Angeles? Or is it all in how you show up? In this week’s all-new Love Life episode, we unpack the myths and realities of…
Nov 10, 2025 · 16:26
This episode tackles a topic that’s as raw as it is real: “I no longer want to hear dating advice from conventionally attractive people.” That line, from a recent British Vogue…
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