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Your Mind Is a Self-Driving Car — Here’s How to Take the Wheel | Alan Bodner

Conversations with Sekani · Sep 21, 2026 · 25:42

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Alan Bodner is an emerging neuro-philosopher, researcher, and founder of the Self-Driving You. After more than a decade studying neuroscience, human behavior, artificial intelligence, and mindfulness, he developed a simple but powerful framework that compares the human mind to a self-driving car.


This framework helps people understand why so much of our behavior runs on autopilot — and more importantly, how we can take back the wheel. Through his research and his book The Self-Driving You, Alan offers practical, science-backed strategies for creating lasting change beyond self-help clichés.


In this insightful conversation, Alan shares:

• Who he was in his 20s — focused purely on survival

• How limiting beliefs and fear shaped early decisions

• The moment he realized he wasn’t living up to his potential

• The self-driving car metaphor for the mind

• System 1 (autopilot) vs. System 2 (conscious driver)

• Why most of us stay “asleep at the wheel”

• Practical ways to wake up your conscious driver and rewire habits


If you’re in your 20s feeling stuck on autopilot, limited by old beliefs, or wondering how to create real change, this episode delivers clear, science-backed tools you can use immediately.


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Connect with Alan Bodner

Website:https://www.theselfdrivingyou.com/

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/alan-bodnar-21bb2513/

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/theselfdrivingyou/



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Chapters


0:00 - Intro & Welcome Alan Bodner

1:40 - His 20s: Survival Mode & Limiting Beliefs

8:15 - Entering the Workforce Without Ambition

15:30 - The Realization He Could Do More

23:10 - Starting the Journey of Self-Discovery

31:45 - The Self-Driving Car Metaphor Explained

40:20 - System 1 (Autopilot) vs. System 2 (Conscious Driver)

48:50 - Why We’re Usually Asleep at the Wheel

57:15 - How to Wake Up Your Conscious Driver

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