What Controls How You Feel Controls You | Dr. Andrea Vitz

Dr. Andrea Vitz has built her work around a simple but confronting idea: what controls how you feel controls you. And if you don’t train that, you stay stuck in the same patterns.

Most people think they are in control of their lives. But if your emotions can take over your decisions, reactions, relationships, or direction, then something else is running the show.

In this powerful conversation, Andrea shares:

• What was really going on beneath the surface of her high-achieving life

• Recognizing emotions as intoxicating and addictive

• Why external success often hides emotional immaturity

• The cost of adult bodies with childish emotional stamina

• Breaking down “what controls how you feel controls you”

• How negative filters keep us generating the same emotional hits

• Becoming the CEO of your own emotional state

If you’re in your 20s chasing success while feeling reactive, defensive, or stuck in emotional patterns, this episode offers a clear path toward emotional sobriety and real freedom.

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Connect with Andrea Vitz

Website:http://www.liftedacademy.com/

LinkedIn:http://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavitz

Instagram:http://www.instagram.com/drandreavitz

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Chapters

0:00 - Intro & Welcome Dr. Andrea Vitz

1:40 - High Achiever on the Outside, Misaligned Inside

8:15 - Emotions as Intoxicating & Addictive

15:30 - The Turning Point for Change

23:10 - What Young Adults Are Ignoring Emotionally

31:45 - Adult Body, Childish Emotional Stamina

40:20 - “What Controls How You Feel Controls You”

48:50 - Negative Filters & Self-Centered Thinking

57:15 - Becoming the CEO of Your Emotional State