A podcast where an aromantic asexual girl and a biromantic demisexual girl talk about all things to do with love, relationships, sexuality, and pretty much anything else that they just don't understand.
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Sep 27, 2026 · 1:07:25
Hey what's up hello! To celebrate our 400th episode (HUH?!), we read quotes from our first 100 episodes and try to guess which one of us said it and what the hell we were talking…
Sep 20, 2026 · 47:47
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about bachelor, bachelorette, and bachelorx(?) parties. What's up with those? Episode Transcript:…
Sep 13, 2026 · 1:04:42
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the removal of smut from the fanfiction site Wattpad, censorship online, ArchiveOfOurOwn refugees, and online etiquette. TW: Mentions…
Aug 30, 2026 · 1:16:07
Hey what's up hello! This week we’re talking about the horseshoe theory… kind of. Really, what we’re talking about is being so woke that you loop around the other side and become…
Aug 23, 2026 · 59:17
Hey what's up hello! We're back digging through the trenches of Reddit and we've found supposed deadbeat moms and bridezillas galore. Episode Transcript:…
Aug 16, 2026 · 1:05:57
Hey what's up hello! This week, we talk about recent examples of queer people enforcing the patriarchy upon other queer people. Episode Transcript:…
Aug 9, 2026 · 1:02:02
Hey what's up hello! This week, we are BACK from break, and we're talking about all the things we're afraid to admit as aspecs. Inspired by this delightful TikTok:…
Jul 5, 2026 · 56:52
Hey what's up hello! This week, inspired by the Scottish having a very roudy visit in Boston for the World Cup, we talk about the phenomenon of sex bucket lists and only having…
Jun 28, 2026 · 1:03:56
Hey what's up hello! You know we're back scrolling through the depths of Reddit. This week: idiot step-fathers, too many blow jobs, saving skulls, incompatible sex drives, and…
Jun 21, 2026 · 56:25
Hey what's up hello! This week we’re back with a follow-up to something we touched on last week: ✨yearning✨. Why do queer folks do so much of it and the straights.... don't?…
Jun 14, 2026 · 1:10:34
Hey what's up hello! This week we’re back with some listener lore, where we hit all the important topics: mustard gas, toilet feuds, should soup, and straight people’s apparent…
Jun 7, 2026 · 1:02:17
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about body trends. What's up with everyone suddenly trying to go for the emaciated look? What does it mean? Do queer people also fall…
May 31, 2026 · 1:01:22
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about Hyles-Anderson College, an unaccredited college in Indiana that teaches young women how to be proper wives and mothers. They really…
May 24, 2026 · 51:39
Hey what's up hello! This week, we're chatting with Ashley Koch, who recently got their Master's degree in Counseling! Ash shares their experience in their Master's program,…
May 17, 2026 · 58:40
Hey what's up hello! This week we're reaching deep into the archives and pulling out a concept we haven't done since 2021. Should we have left it there? Who knows! We play our…
May 10, 2026 · 56:53
Hey what's up hello! You know it, you love it. Sarah is back from Ireland, and Reddit is back in town. Episode Transcript:…
May 3, 2026 · 6:44
Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/special-report-live-from-the-aroace-capital-of-the-world Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join:…
Apr 26, 2026 · 1:20:12
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the high percentage of aspecs that are under the trans umbrella. We try to figure out why so many aspecs are trans and discuss how the…
Apr 19, 2026 · 59:10
Hey what's up hello! Today we answer the question can I still be asexual or aromantic if I have sex? If I'm in a romantic relationship? If I have trauma? The answer is basically…
Apr 12, 2026 · 1:05:32
Hey what’s up hello! It’s time for another listener lore, where we answer pressing questions like what the hell is up with Nick? How did we end up on a sidebar about the BTS…
Apr 5, 2026 · 1:00:59
Hey what's up hello! Today we're learning about sex toys. Specifically, the ones that are defined by google as "weird" but... good? Look, we don't know either. Just come on this…
Mar 29, 2026 · 1:02:46
Hey what's up hello! Today we dive into research that shows strong links between someone's birth order and sibling composition and their sexuality. We are not scientists; we are…
Mar 22, 2026 · 52:45
Hey what's up hello! This week ask ourselves the age-old question: just what IS happening over on Reddit? Episode Transcript:…
Mar 15, 2026 · 41:50
Hey what's up hello! This week we dive into Heteropessimism and make the case for MORE attention to be paid to heterosexuality? We know how it sounds, but hear us out. Episode…
Mar 8, 2026 · 1:00:28
Hey what's up hello! This week we learn that there's apparently a libido crisis going on. News to us. We read what Them has to say about the crisis and rate their 69 dating and…
Mar 1, 2026 · 58:26
Hey what's up hello! This week we're recapping the 2026 Winter Olympics and talking about everything from cheating scandals (the romantic and sports kinds) to queer icons to…
Feb 22, 2026 · 1:00:14
Hey what’s up hello! You know it. You love it. This week we’re back on Reddit and asking the important questions: can I sue my friend for no-showing to my wedding? Why the hell…
Feb 15, 2026 · 1:11:51
Hey what's up hello! This week, in honor of Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week, we're chatting with aromantic artist Zachary Trebellas about his new exhibit "Shot With a Lead…
Feb 8, 2026 · 52:27
Hey what's up hello! This week we're exploring aplatonicism — what it is, what the aplatonic experience might feel like, and why it can be so hard for even aspecs to wrap their…
Feb 1, 2026 · 51:59
Hey what's up hello! We're back reading YOUR wild Reddit-style stories. This week - Alfredo disasters, accidental relationships, and more car troubles. Episode Transcript:…
Jan 25, 2026 · 57:03
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk Queerbaiting - what's the real definition is, what queerbaiting isn't, and if celebrities themselves can queerbait with their actual…
Jan 18, 2026 · 44:25
Hey what's up hello! Second episode of the year and we're already back in the Reddit trenches. This time - wedding seating chart mayhem and insecure husbands. Oh we are soooo…
Jan 11, 2026 · 1:01:40
Hey what's up hello! We are BACK and we are talking about GAY HOCKEY — why is everyone (including us) obsessed with it? Episode Transcript:…
Dec 7, 2025 · 1:05:53
Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of the year we're returning to our annual tradition of recording the same episode one year apart, a la the Billie Eilish Vanity Fair…
Nov 30, 2025 · 55:21
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about what it's like being aromantic or asexual at work. We discuss whether being aspec puts you at a disadvantage when trying to bond with…
Nov 23, 2025 · 56:41
Hey what's up hello! This week we look at harrowing posts from r/menwritingwomen and talk about what it takes for straight people to successfully write queer characters and for…
Nov 16, 2025 · 54:58
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about spooky horror movies. Why do the characters who have sex always get killed? And what does it mean? Episode Transcript:…
Nov 9, 2025 · 56:07
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about ~money~, and the evergreen question: are aspecs, single folks, and those in non-normative relationships punished financially in…
Nov 2, 2025 · 56:54
Hey what's up hello! We're back on Reddit, and you can't stop us. Content warning: graphic descriptions of poop and unhygienic behavior (we’re so sorry) Episode Transcript:…
Oct 26, 2025 · 54:33
Hey what's up hello! More listener lore m'lord? This week we've got large game, horrifying gifts from crushes, pepper spray, annoying dudebros, and more! Episode Transcript:…
Oct 19, 2025 · 58:19
Happy Ace Week! This week’s ep could not be less about that. It IS, however, about heteronormativity in how we talk about queer sex, and also a Twitter fight Sarah got in.…
Oct 12, 2025 · 57:18
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the mythos of "true love's first kiss," why it's a lazy plot device, and why humans like kissing so dang much in the first place.…
Oct 5, 2025 · 53:30
Hey what's up hello! We're back with Reddit stories about hair bears, vegan drama, and picking up the check. Plus, a passionate rant about Magic 8 Balls. Episode Transcript:…
Sep 28, 2025 · 47:59
Hey what's up hello! This week we explore the modern-day influx (or is it?) of sexualized music. Somehow that also turns into a discussion of how some helicopter parents these…
Sep 21, 2025 · 51:27
Hey what's up hello! This week we explore why acespecs are so good at writing smut and why arospecs are so good at writing romance. Episode Transcript:…
Sep 14, 2025 · 48:35
Hey what's up hello! Today we're sharing our hot takes and yours! Feel the burn of the hottest takes about evolution, lesbianism, historical friendships, and more. Episode…
Sep 7, 2025 · 51:21
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about how people who are in relationships are treated differently than single people. It's like couple privledge but for the individual. We…
Aug 31, 2025 · 51:45
Hey what's up hello! This week we are back on our Reddit Rabbithole BS. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-pt-18 Donate:…
Aug 24, 2025 · 51:20
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss people having AI partners. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/ai-relationships Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod…
Aug 10, 2025 · 57:35
Hey what's up hello! We're back telling YOUR wild stories from high school relationship drama to pigeon rescues. Episode Transcript:…
Aug 3, 2025 · 58:37
Hey what's up hello! We are back and it is time for a Q&A for SFBO's 8th birthday! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/8th-birthday-qa Donate:…
Jun 29, 2025 · 1:02:49
Hey what's up hello! As June wraps up, we reflect on Pride 2025 - the lack of corporate pride, aspecs at pride events, and rampant biphobia. And do we get a little bit off topic…
Jun 22, 2025 · 49:31
Hey what's up hello! This week we look at examples of times when changing your interests or look for the sake of a crush actually turned out to be a good thing. We know it's…
Jun 15, 2025 · 58:43
Hey what's up hello! This week we play romance and dating choose your own adventure stories on chooseyourstory.com! Spoiler alert: it goes about as well as you think it will.…
Jun 8, 2025 · 55:08
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss how society's current conception of womanhood clashes with asexual and aromantic identities. Can gender and sexuality be separated? What…
May 25, 2025 · 1:06:47
Hey what's up hello! We are back and so are the people who make so many bad decisions and then post about them on Reddit. Episode Transcript:…
May 18, 2025 · 1:06:59
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about a new study that found that having a cat or a dog to keep you company could boost your wellbeing as much as being married. The…
May 11, 2025 · 59:34
Hey what's up hello! This week we're joined by Debbie Urbanski to talk about her excellent collection of short stories, Portalmania. Portalmania dives bravely into the shadowy…
May 4, 2025 · 54:23
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the phenomenon of queer women loving boy bands and yell from the mountaintops about how you can be a boy band fan without finding any of…
Apr 27, 2025 · 54:20
Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some more lore submitted by our listeners. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/listener-lore-pt-4 Submit your lore:…
Apr 20, 2025 · 50:18
Hey what's up hello! This week we discuss the overlap between transphobia and aphobia and the importance of trans aspec solidarity. TW: transphobia Episode Transcript:…
Apr 13, 2025 · 49:36
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about making assumptions about people. They really do make an ass out of you and me. Episode Transcript:…
Apr 6, 2025 · 58:33
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about doing things by yourself when they are normally done as a couple or in a group. Episode Transcript:…
Mar 30, 2025 · 47:33
You know what time it is. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-16 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join:…
Mar 23, 2025 · 56:11
Hey what's up hello! Today we talk about the morning shed, appealing to various gazes, and other such beauty standard shenanigans. Episode Transcript:…
Mar 16, 2025 · 1:05:28
Hey what's up hello! Today we have LOTS of house to keep. Then, we talk about the importance of celebrating major life events that aren't allo-centric things like weddings or…
Mar 9, 2025 · 47:34
Hey what's up hello! Some people are giving things up for Lent. We have ideas. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-to-give-up-for-lent Donate:…
Mar 2, 2025 · 55:18
Hey what's up hello! We're back reading Reddit stories with a heavy detour to Bologna Fest. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-pt-15 Donate:…
Feb 23, 2025 · 1:15:08
Hey what's up hello! This week we're chatting with Dee Whitnell about their new book Beyond Bananas and Condoms: The LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Sex Education You Never Got at School.…
Feb 16, 2025 · 1:02:27
Hey what's up hello! This week we're celebrating Aromantic Spectrum Awareness Week by chatting with Rachel Levi and Kerry Chin, two of the authors of AUREA's upcoming book on…
Feb 9, 2025 · 44:34
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about emophilia - a psychological trait that describes people who fall in love easily, quickly, and often. Personally, we cannot relate.…
Feb 2, 2025 · 59:41
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about (alleged) Gen Z dating slang. And the moon, apparently. Episode Transcript:…
Jan 26, 2025 · 48:41
Hey what's up hello! This week we're reading some lighthearted and silly stories submitted by you! Content Warning: Sex trafficking Episode Transcript:…
Jan 19, 2025 · 1:05:24
Hey what's up hello! We are back and just as mediocre as ever. This week we're answering the internet's most burning relationship questions from 2024. Episode Transcript:…
Dec 15, 2024 · 1:14:29
Hey what's up hello! For our last episode of the year we're returning to our annual tradition of recording the same episode one year apart, a la the Billie Eilish Vanity Fair…
Dec 8, 2024 · 57:05
Hey what's up hello! For our penultimate episode of the year, we're heading back to Reddit to react to some wild stories involving kids. Episode Transcript:…
Dec 1, 2024 · 53:30
Hey what's up hello! This week we're TOGETHER coming at you live from Kayla's hometown. We talk all about Hallmark Christmas movies from an aspec perspective. Episode Transcript:…
Nov 24, 2024 · 59:58
Hey what's up hello! We're back with another edition of Listener Lore. We give some updates on last time's stories and then get into more truly wild stuff. Episode Transcript:…
Nov 17, 2024 · 52:46
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about the Korean 4B Movement and how it could or could not be applied to the US post-election. Episode Transcript:…
Nov 3, 2024 · 49:36
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about conjugal visits - what they are, their history, and what they mean for the importance of sex in society. Episode Transcript:…
Oct 27, 2024 · 57:05
Hey what's up hello! This week we discussing the concept of "Hear Me Out" cakes and asking the age-old question: are the allos okay ? Episode Transcript:…
Oct 20, 2024 · 55:34
Hey what's up hello! This week instead of heading to Reddit to find wild stories about love and life, we're getting our stories straight from you, our loyal listeners. Strap in,…
Oct 13, 2024 · 52:21
Hey what's up hello! This week we're playing a good old-fashioned game of Would You Rather - aspec edition. Episode Transcript:…
Oct 6, 2024 · 46:53
This week we're talking all about PDA and just how much Sarah hates it no matter what. Also please write Vote FWD letters with Sarah or else she'll cry and think you hate…
Sep 29, 2024 · 1:01:34
Hey what's up hello! Once again we are in the Reddit and Am I The Asshole trenches. Content Notice: Discussions of gun violence, abuse, and police Episode Transcript:…
Sep 22, 2024 · 54:26
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about unconditional love - Is it real? Should it exist? What problems does it cause? We also talk a lot about hell. I don't know man. You…
Sep 15, 2024 · 51:26
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about heterosexual men, and how actually... homoerotic they are? Content notice: Brief mentions of sexual assault Episode Transcript:…
Sep 8, 2024 · 56:18
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about our famous "Don't Should" life philosophy. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-dont-should-philosophy…
Aug 25, 2024 · 44:59
Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about sexuality (and gender) are fluid, the idea of being "born this way" and honestly a lot about coconut trees. Episode Transcript:…
Aug 18, 2024 · 58:55
Hey what's up hello! You know that time it is. The artist formerly known as Am I the Asshole is back — this week we come to you with Reddit stories of all sorts, and also a…
Aug 11, 2024 · 58:43
Hey what's up hello! This week we are talking about trad wives by way of the Ballerina Farm controversy. What are they? Why are they? Are they okay??? Content Notice: Mentions of…
Aug 4, 2024 · 1:02:54
Hey what's up hello! We are back and ready to utilize our hard-earned PhDs in yappology. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/yapping Donate:…
Jun 30, 2024 · 47:50
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about common romance fiction tropes, try to decide if they would actually work in real life, and decide how we would react if one of our…
Jun 23, 2024 · 1:04:21
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about ~aspec awakenings~ and our own SFBO lore. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-origin-stories Donate:…
Jun 16, 2024 · 54:55
Hey what's up hello! You already know what time it is. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-11 DONATE TO ALAA'S GOFUNDME:…
Jun 9, 2024 · 45:51
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the influx of discussions around "medium ugly" men, the related category of "hot rodent" men, and how both of those groups are…
Jun 2, 2024 · 1:01:53
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the illustrious boy moms. Can we fix them? No. But will we psychoanalyze them to figure out what the hell is going on in there?…
May 26, 2024 · 54:20
Hey what's up hello! In light of the recent Bumble fumble, we talk about dating apps, how they attract new users, and why they should talk to literally any aspec just once before…
May 19, 2024 · 47:14
Hey what's up hello! This week we take a look through history and rate dating customs from the ye old days. Episode Transcript:…
May 12, 2024 · 53:53
Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about the effects the internet has on how kids age and develop. We try to decipher why it feels like kids are growing up faster and getting…
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