Forgive, Don’t Forget: Why Trust Has to Be Rebuilt
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling · Jul 21, 2026 · 52:18
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling
We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling · Jul 21, 2026 · 52:18
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Forgiveness can become one of the most confusing parts of relationships after betrayal. You want relief from carrying the hurt—but you may fear that letting go means letting the person back in.
You may be tired of replaying what happened.
Tired of feeling your body react to their name.
Tired of wondering whether your anger is protecting you—or keeping the injury alive.
In this episode:
When forgiveness feels like pressure instead of freedom
Why letting go of resentment can feel like losing your boundary
What it means when grief stops moving
Why forgiveness does not automatically restore trust
What rebuilding trust requires from the person who caused the harm
Dr. Darcy is joined by Dr. Fred Luskin, director of the Stanford Forgiveness Projects and author of Forgive for Good, for a conversation about forgiveness, resentment, infidelity, accountability, boundaries, and the uncertain path back to trust.
You may be ready to stop carrying what happened—without knowing what the relationship has earned from you now.
Listen to Forgive, Don’t Forget: Why Trust Has to Be Rebuilt and follow We Need To Talk with Dr. Darcy Sterling for more conversations about relationships, attachment, and emotional patterns.
REFERENCES/RESOURCES
Forgive for Good: A Proven Prescription for Health and Happiness
www.alternativescounseling.com
CREDITS
“We Need To Talk With Dr. Darcy Sterling” is a Sterling Standard Production. Editing and sound engineering by Bart Migal. Our theme music is by Trending Music. Special thanks to Amanda Cristiani and Robyn Jaenchen.
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