Ep. 164 When is it time to work with a coach?

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How do you know if it's actually time to work with a coach?

The truth is, coaching isn't just for people whose lives are falling apart. It's for people who know they're capable of more but feel stuck figuring out how to get there. In this episode, I explain the difference between coaching and therapy, the five biggest signs that coaching could help you move forward, and why having someone in your corner can help you overcome the blind spots, fears, and resistance that keep you from making lasting change.

I also walk you through the different types of coaches that exist—from career and business coaches to relationship, nutrition, and life coaches—so you can better understand what kind of support fits your current season of life. Finally, I take you behind the scenes of my Own Your Life System, the six-pillar coaching framework I've developed to help twenty-somethings build confidence, create meaningful goals, establish healthy routines, improve communication, and take ownership of their lives.

Whether you're considering coaching with me or simply wondering if coaching is the right next step for you, this episode will help you recognize when it's time to stop trying to figure everything out alone.

• The difference between coaching and therapy
• Five signs it's time to work with a coach
• Why knowing what to do isn't the same as doing it
• How fear and resistance keep you stuck
• Why life transitions are easier with support
• The different types of coaches available
• What to look for when choosing a coach
• The six pillars of my Own Your Life System

This episode is for you if...

• You keep setting the same goals but never follow through.
• You know exactly what you should be doing but can't seem to do it.
• You feel stuck and can't explain why.
• You're navigating a major life transition.
• You're wondering if coaching is worth the investment.

• Coaching focuses on helping you move from where you are to where you want to be.
• Repeating the same goals without changing your approach usually points to missing systems, not lack of motivation.
• Fear of the unknown often creates resistance, even when you know the next step.
• Feeling stuck doesn't always mean something is wrong—it may mean you've outgrown your current season.
• Major life transitions are easier to navigate with guidance and accountability.
• Your friends can support you emotionally, but they aren't responsible for helping you create lasting change.
• There is a coach for almost every niche, life stage, and challenge.
• Choosing a coach is about both expertise and finding someone you genuinely connect with.
• Building confidence comes from consistently showing up for yourself.
• You don't have to figure out adulthood on your own.

What's the difference between coaching and therapy?

Therapy focuses on healing and processing your past, while coaching helps you create a plan for the future and take action toward your goals.

How do I know if I need a coach?

If you feel stuck, keep repeating the same patterns, struggle to follow through, or want accountability while working toward a goal, coaching may be a great fit.

Is coaching only for people who are struggling?

Not at all. Coaching is for anyone who wants to grow, create change, or reach goals more effectively.

How do I choose the right coach?

Start by identifying the area of your life you want help with, then find someone whose experience, personality, and coaching style align with what you're looking for.

What is the Own Your Life System?

The Own Your Life System is my six-pillar coaching framework focused on Create, Consistency, Control, Connect, Communicate, and Confidence to help twenty-somethings build a life that's truly their own.

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