359. How to Stop Overthinking and Start Taking Action (Even When You Don’t Feel Ready)

Hi Mamas, 

Have you ever had something you REALLY wanted to do…but you thought about it so much that you eventually talked yourself right out of doing it? 

You researched. You planned. You worried about what could go wrong and what other people might think. You told yourself you’d start when you had more time, knew more, felt more confident, or finally had everything figured out. 

And then…you didn’t start. 

Mama, this episode is for you. And if I’m being real, it’s for me too. 

Right now, I’m in a season of dreaming BIG for Mom Wife Career Life. I’m building courses and resources, coaching, growing the podcast, learning more about marketing, and pushing myself WAY outside of my comfort zone by showing up more on video and social media. 

As an introvert and recovering perfectionist, that doesn’t exactly come naturally to me. 😂 

But I’m realizing that there comes a point when we have to stop thinking about the thing…and actually DO the thing. 

In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between preparing and hiding, why consuming more information can sometimes become another form of procrastination, and why you don’t have to feel confident before you begin. 

Because confidence usually comes AFTER you start. 

Your first workout doesn’t need to be perfect. Your first budget doesn’t need to be perfect. Your first Reel, podcast, business idea, boundary, career move, or attempt at something new doesn’t need to be perfect. 

You learn by doing. 

You build confidence by doing. 

And sometimes 80% and DONE will take you much further than 100% perfect sitting unfinished on your computer. 

I’m also sharing what manifesting looks like for me right now—not simply wishing for something and hoping it magically happens, but getting clear about what I want, believing it’s possible, and then asking myself: 

What do I need to DO to move toward it? 

Because manifesting the life you want isn’t just about believing it’s possible. It’s about being willing to participate in creating it. 

In this episode, we talk about: 

• How overthinking can disguise itself as “preparing” 

• Why you don’t have to feel ready before you start 

• The connection between action and confidence 

• How perfectionism keeps us stuck 

• Why learning and getting help are valuable—but eventually you have to DO something with what you learn 

• Taking action when you’re scared or uncomfortable 

• Why one small next step is enough 

• The role action plays in manifesting your goals 

• What I’m personally doing to push myself outside my comfort zone and grow Mom Wife Career Life 

Your Next Step 

Think about the thing you keep saying you’ll do “when.” 

When work slows down. 

When the kids are older. 

When you have more money. 

When you lose the weight. 

When you know more. 

When you’re more confident. 

When you finally feel ready. 

What if you don’t need to wait for “when”? 

You don’t need to figure out the next twenty steps today. 

Just take one. 

Send the email. Make the appointment. Apply for the job. Take the walk. Sign up for the class. Post the video. Start the budget. Buy the domain. Have the conversation. Ask for help. 

Whatever your thing is… take one step. 

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If there’s something you want but you’ve been stuck overthinking it, grab my Goal Manifesting Planner. 

Use it to get clear about what you want, visualize where you’re going, and… most importantly… break your big goals down into action you can actually take. 

Goal Manifesting Planner … You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t have to be fearless. And you definitely don’t have to do it perfectly. 

You just have to start. 

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