70. The Resolutions None of Us Actually Did

You didn’t fail your New Year’s resolutions.

You survived a year that was heavier than the plans you made for it.

I asked the ADHD Mums community how their New Year’s goals actually went last year — and the answers weren’t lazy, careless, or undisciplined. They were honest. Tender. Exhausted.

This episode is a collective exhale for every mum who promised she’d get organised, rest more, yell less, move her body… and then found herself just trying to keep everyone alive.

💬 What this episode really says

ADHD mums don’t fail goals because they don’t care enough.

They struggle because they’re already at capacity when they set them.

🧠 In this episode, we unpack:

1. Why New Year’s resolutions collapse for ADHD mums — especially in January
2. How burnout and survival mode sabotage motivation and follow-through
3. The difference between ‘lack of discipline’ and lack of margin
4. Why long-term planning doesn’t work when your nervous system is cooked
5. A kinder, ADHD-friendly alternative to goal-setting

🎧 Listen & links

1. Listen: https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/the-resolutions-none-of-us-actually-did
2. Resource: Energy Accounting Guide → https://adhdmums.com.au/product/adhd-mums-energy-accounting-guide/

🔗 Related episodes

1. The Year I’ve Decided Good Enough Is Enough
2. https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/good-enough-is-enough-year/
3. Why Most Planners Fail ADHD Mums (And How to Finally Make One Work)
4. https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-52-why-most-planners-fail-adhd-mums-and-how-to-finally-make-one-work/
5. QUICK RESET: The ADHD Myth of ‘Just Try Harder’
6. https://adhdmums.com.au/podcast_episode/episode-24-quick-reset-the-adhd-myth-of-just-try-harder/