Episode 86: Why Your Child's Meltdowns Happen at the Same Time Every Day

Why does your child melt down at exactly 7:15am, 3:15pm and 8:45pm, like clockwork?

On the ADHD Families Podcas t , Sharon Collon, PCC credentialed ADHD coach and founder of The Functional Family , explains why ADHD meltdowns aren't random. They run to a very tight timetable, and that timetable is the most useful information you've got.

Sharon unpacks the three windows where most ADHD families break (morning launch, after school landing and the bedtime encore), answers the question every parent asks her, and walks you through four practical moves to plan for the pattern instead of reacting to it. If you've been hunting for the trigger, this episode will change where you look.

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👀 In This Episode, Sharon Covers:

✅ Why a meltdown is a capacity problem, not a decision
✅ The three daily windows where ADHD families break
✅ Why the trigger is never actually the cause
✅ "Is my child doing this on purpose?" and why the answer is no
✅ Why it lands on you, the safest person in the room
✅ Move #1: Map your flashpoints for one week
✅ Move #2: Lower demand at the spike, not all day
✅ Move #3: Build a rhythm into the hard window
✅ Move #4: Move the demand off the person and onto the system
✅ The school gate example, start to finish

⚠️ If you've ever stood at the school gate bracing for impact, this episode is for you.

 

⏱️ Episode Timestamps

00:00 – The meltdown you could set your clock by
01:00 – Sharon's own flashpoint: the school uniform collar
02:40 – Why it's not random: demand outruns capacity
04:10 – Window 1: The morning launch, 7 to 8am
05:10 – Window 2: The after school landing, 3 to 4pm
06:10 – Window 3: The bedtime encore, 8 to 9pm
07:10 – "Is my child doing this on purpose?"
08:50 – The question that changes how parents see afternoons
10:20 – The four moves to plan for the pattern
14:10 – The school gate example and your free next step

 

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