How Is That On Me If I Didn't Know the Rule?

You did something completely harmless. Wore your hat indoors. Put the trash somewhere that made perfect sense to you. Told the truth instead of smoothing it over. And someone you love reacted like you'd slapped them across the face.

So whose fault is that?

If you can't possibly know every unspoken rule the people around you are living by, how can breaking one be on you? And if it isn't on you, why does it still sting so much?

Amanda, Drusilla, Morgan, and Penny take on one of the stickiest questions on the spiritual path. When you start questioning everything and living by your own agreements, is that sovereignty, or is it just selfishness? There's a husband who turned 50 shades of purple over a bag of trash, a bouquet of flowers that finally got called out after 20 years, and a reality check about who even the most open-hearted among us would actually let into our circle.

If you're a recovering people pleaser, or you've ever wondered where healthy spiritual boundaries end and stubbornness begins, this conversation is for you.

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🍋 RESOURCES MENTIONED

🔹 The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
🔹 The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton
🔹 The Prayer of St. Francis
🔹 Martin Luther King Jr. on why only light can drive out darkness
🔹 The Al-Anon slogan Penny lives by (you'll hear it)

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🍋 JOIN THE CONVERSATION

What's a rule you were handed as a kid that you've quietly stopped following? And who in your life still lives by it? Come tell us over on YouTube. We read every comment.

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🍋 WORK WITH THE LEMONETTES

💛 Amanda (Spiritual Counseling): amandasnyder123@gmail.com
💛 Drusilla (Spiritual Counseling): djtalley@comcast.net
💛 Melissa (Business & Marketing Coaching): melissa@dugan2.com
💛 Morgan (Spiritual Counseling): morgan@lovelightmorgan.com
💛 Penny (Performance Coaching): coachpenny@me.com

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🍋 Five Lemons Laughing is a podcast about spirituality, personal growth, and authentic storytelling for women who are done playing small.