When we can’t fix our kids’ hurt with Vanessa Siso — The Christian Parenting Podcast - Motherhood, Teaching kids about Jesus, Intentional parenting, Raising Christian kids

This episode is for every parent who has ever felt helpless watching their child go through something hard. You know that ache, that deep desire to step in and fix it all?

Today’s guest is Vanessa Siso, a registered psychologist and author, and she brings such a gentle, wise, and hope-filled perspective. She reminds us that while we can’t always protect our kids from hardship, we can walk with them through it in a way that strengthens their faith and resilience.

Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:

Why it’s more powerful to be present than to offer quick fixes
How simple role play helps kids process and respond to hard things biblically
The difference between helping and rescuing, and how rescuing can hinder growth
A practical tool: narrating your own coping strategies to model emotional resilience

If this conversation speaks to you, be sure to check out Vanessa’s children's book, Elizabeth’s Miracle, which helps kids process challenges through a faith-based lens.

About Vanessa Siso:

Vanessa is a registered psychologist, children’s book author, and mom who is passionate about helping families navigate mental health and spiritual growth with compassion and confidence. Her work blends clinical insight with biblical wisdom, giving parents the tools to walk with their children through life’s ups and downs with grace.

Thanks for being here, let’s keep walking this parenting path together.

(01:51) The Importance of Allowing Kids to Experience Hardships

(05:52) The Long-Term Effects of Shielding Kids from Pain

(09:52) Understanding Kids' Feelings of Loneliness and Isolation

(14:08) The Power of Presence in Parenting

(18:15) Teaching Kids to Trust God Through Struggles

(21:56) Role-Playing as a Tool for Learning

(26:05) Vanessa's Book: A Resource for Parents

(30:02) Conclusion and Resources

Prefer video? This episode is on YouTube!

Connect with Vanessa

https://www.vanessasiso.com/