Raising Spiritually Strong Kids Without Trying to Control the Outcome with Charles Fay

In this episode, Steph talks with psychologist, author, and Love and Logic expert Dr. Charles Fay about raising kids whose faith goes deeper than simply knowing how to behave like a Christian.

Charles shares why spiritually strong kids aren't perfect kids, why faith is ultimately a gift from God, and how parents can nurture faith without trying to control the outcome. They talk about allowing kids to make mistakes while the stakes are still small, holding boundaries with empathy, modeling repentance when we get it wrong, and helping kids learn to depend on God through life's struggles.

They also unpack the temptation to believe in a kind of "parenting prosperity gospel": that if we read the right books, follow the right strategies, and work hard enough, our kids are guaranteed to become faithful adults. Instead, Charles encourages parents to focus on what God has actually called us to do and trust him with the results.

Resources Mentioned

About Charles Fay

Love and Logic Institute

Raising Spiritually Strong Kids book

The Word in our Home

Christmas Gift guide

Carpool Conversations with WinShape Camps

NiRV Question & Answer Bible for Kids

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