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Big Swings Only

Big Swings Only

Why Networking Fails — and What Real Relationship Strategy Looks Like

Big Swings Only · Mar 22, 2026 · 1:02:21

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What if everything you’ve been taught about networking is missing the point?

In this episode, we sit down with relationship strategy expert Andy Lopata to uncover why real professional success isn’t built in networking events — it’s built in intentional relationships. If you’ve ever felt that traditional networking advice feels transactional, awkward, or even a little manipulative, Andy offers a refreshing alternative: a strategy rooted in authentic connection, trust, and long-term value.

Drawing on decades of experience working with global organizations and leaders, Andy reveals why most professionals focus on the wrong things when building their networks — and how shifting your focus from tactics to relationship strategy can transform your career.

You’ll learn:



Why “networking” is only a tiny part of building meaningful professional relationships




The 7 stages of professional relationships — from recognition to advocacy




How the Relationship Matrix helps you move from passive connections to intentional influence




The real reasons people choose to help their colleagues — and how to ethically leverage that dynamic




Practical ways to influence without authority in siloed organizations




Along the way, Andy and Kwame unpack the psychology of influence, the blurred line between personal and professional relationships, and why authentic curiosity — not manipulation — is the real key to building a powerful network.

If you want stronger alliances, greater influence at work, and a relationship strategy that actually works, this conversation will change the way you think about connection.

Tune in and discover how to turn everyday interactions into lasting professional relationships that open doors for years to come.

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