Cup Of Mud with Victoria Cuore and Michael Solomon

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“A cup of mud” turns into a whole philosophy tonight. We start with the messy, funny reality of married life: coffee orders that confuse strangers, typing versus dictation, getting roasted by our kid, and yes, losing at bowling even when the lane has every possible advantage. It’s light, it’s chaotic, and it’s us.

Then we pivot into something heavier: what happens when post-op care feels rushed, inconsistent, or flat-out disrespectful. We walk through a follow-up appointment after a serious reaction, how allergy concerns get handled (or ignored), and why reading your chart notes matters when what’s written doesn’t match what you experienced. We also talk about access problems like months-long waits, “five to seven business days” replies, and how patient advocacy becomes a survival skill, especially when you’re healing, in pain, or dealing with hearing loss and mobility risks.

From there, a news story about a shooting stopped by a civilian opens up a candid talk on situational awareness, responsible concealed carry, training, and the small habits we use in restaurants and on the road to reduce risk. We close with what we’re building at Contagious Smile: peer-to-peer support rooted in lived experience, plus a heartfelt moment of condolences for Jesse Tyler Williams and a recommendation to check out her work.

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