The Parenting Paradox, with Dr Jenny Brown

The harder we try to be the "perfect" parent, the more we can unintentionally hold our children back.

Family therapist Dr Jenny Brown explains why modern parenting has become so intense, how worry fuels conflict, and why the best thing you can do for your child is often to work on yourself instead. This practical conversation will help you step out of exhausting worry cycles, respond more calmly, and create the space your child needs to become more capable and confident.

KEY POINTS

• Why parenting has become so overwhelming
• The hidden cost of over-monitoring and over-helping
• How parents get caught in worry cycles
• Why changing yourself is more powerful than changing your child
• Simple ways to respond calmly when your buttons get pushed
• How giving children space builds resilience and confidence

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

"The parent makes a project out of themselves, not their child." — Dr Jenny Brown

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• The Parenting Paradox: Loving Our Children by Giving Them Space to Grow by Dr Jenny Brown
• The Parent Hope Project
• The Parenting Revolution by Dr Justin Coulson

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Notice one situation where you regularly worry or overreact.
• Focus on changing your own response instead of your child's behaviour.
• Lower your tone and resist over-explaining or rescuing.
• If you lose your cool, apologise and reset.
• Give your child more room to solve problems independently.

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