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The Best Life Podcast

Ep. 624: Pick-Me Behavior

The Best Life Podcast · Apr 29, 2026 · 27:40

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Nobody likes a girl who hates on other girls, especially for the benefit of men. Once upon a time, when we were younger, we would brag about how we “weren’t like other girls,” but now we know better. Our female friendships have saved us from our darkest moments, and we’d be honored to be exactly like other women. Femininity isn’t a weakness—it’s strength to find beauty and connection even in the darkest times. We don’t hate the “pick-me” girls out there, but we do feel kind of embarrassed for them.


The Bird Life [1:20]

Pick-me behavior [4:56]

Taking up a misogynist narrative [7:57]

Our female friendships have saved us [9:19]

Seeing femininity as weakness [11:29]

Internalized self-hatred [13:42]

Finding an appreciation for beauty [16:40]

Gaining maturity [21:41]


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