Pardon the Mess with Scarlet Hiltibidal - Christian Motherhood, Biblical Parenting, Raising Christian Kids
Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
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Scarlet Hiltibidal and Christian Parenting
▶ WebplayerAs parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Pardon the Mess is a podcast for Christian moms who love Jesus, love their kids, and still feel behind on most days. Each week, host Scarlet takes one real parenting mess (morning meltdowns, discipline guilt, raising kind kids in a world that doesn't feel kind) and untangles it with honesty and grace, one small, faithful step at a time. No five-step systems. No longer to-do lists. Just clarity about what matters most and permission to let the rest go. Pardon the Mess is a part of the...
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Oct 5, 2026 · 7:36
But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt, because the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That person should not expect to receive…
Oct 1, 2026 · 32:52
What do you do when motherhood feels like it’s all on you? In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal offers Scripture-based encouragement for moms who feel alone in the work of raising…
Sep 28, 2026 · 7:15
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (James 1:5) This week, let’s pray that our kids: •…
Sep 24, 2026 · 31:54
In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal talks honestly about the overwhelm that can come with being both a mom and a working woman. Instead of offering another list of ways to do it…
Sep 21, 2026 · 8:37
Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance…
Sep 17, 2026 · 27:42
In this episode of Pardon the Mess , Scarlet Hiltibidal brings on her friend, Laura Jenz, to talk honestly about both sides of foster care and adoption: the joy, the grief, the…
Sep 14, 2026 · 11:10
Today we are kicking off this year's series that follows Christian Parenting's brand new prayer journal. Inspired by the book of James, Faith in Action: Prayers from James for…
Sep 10, 2026 · 25:32
What makes a home joyful? It’s probably not a spotless house, perfectly behaved children, or a mom who never gets overwhelmed. In this episode of Pardon the Mess , Scarlet…
Sep 3, 2026 · 31:25
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Aug 27, 2026 · 38:30
In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal (and her sister, Aubrey Fuhrman) talk about the tension many moms feel between loving sacrificially and setting healthy boundaries. Through an…
Aug 20, 2026 · 28:51
Motherhood is beautiful, but it can also feel isolating. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares why moms need gospel-centered community and how God often works through the…
Aug 13, 2026 · 27:14
What if my anxiety is affecting my kids? It’s a question many moms quietly ask themselves. In this episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares a personal story from her own motherhood…
Aug 6, 2026 · 23:45
If you've ever wrestled a toddler through the church doors, bribed your kids with donuts to make it through the service, or wondered if anything they're hearing is actually…
Jul 30, 2026 · 29:31
Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered, Who even am I anymore? Motherhood is beautiful, sacred, and deeply meaningful, but it can also feel all-consuming. Somewhere…
Jul 23, 2026 · 34:27
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Jul 16, 2026 · 30:25
Summer always seems to come with big expectations. We imagine memory-making adventures, endless family fun, and kids who magically never complain. But somewhere between snack…
Jul 9, 2026 · 26:47
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Jul 2, 2026 · 39:03
In this deeply personal episode, Scarlet Hiltibidal shares her own experiences with miscarriage and the difficult questions that often accompany loss. Through stories of grief,…
Jun 25, 2026 · 34:17
How do you talk to your kids about cancer, suffering, terminal illness, or the possibility of losing someone they love? Whether it's a grandparent's diagnosis, a chronic illness,…
Jun 18, 2026 · 31:59
How do we help our children navigate change when their hearts are breaking over what they're leaving behind? In this week's episode of Pardon the Mess , Scarlet Hiltibidal shares…
Jun 11, 2026 · 28:19
How do you love your children well when every one of them seems to need something completely different from you? In this week's episode of Pardon the Mess , Scarlet Hiltibidal…
Jun 4, 2026 · 32:09
It’s officially Scarlet Hiltibidal’s first episode as the new host of Pardon the Mess, and she’s kicking things off with a conversation every mom needs to hear. If you’ve ever…
Jun 1, 2026 · 1:43
As parents, we know raising kids is the opposite of neat and tidy. Pardon the Mess is a podcast for Christian moms who love Jesus, love their kids, and still feel behind on most…
May 28, 2026 · 39:43
Well, it’s a bittersweet day for me. I am delighted to introduce you to your NEW HOST of Pardon the Mess, Scarlet Hiltibidal. This is my last episode as your host, and I am…
May 25, 2026 · 10:53
Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of…
May 21, 2026 · 29:25
Big decisions in motherhood often come with uncertainty—especially when it comes to balancing family, work, calling, and the many demands on our time. In this episode, the tables…
May 18, 2026 · 8:10
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May 14, 2026 · 38:27
Parenting often feels like a journey of wondering whether we’re getting it right—and it can be easy to tie our worth to the outcome of our children’s lives and choices. In this…
May 11, 2026 · 13:50
I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also. (2 Timothy 1:5) Eunice and…
May 7, 2026 · 29:01
ATTENTION: I have a pretty big announcement in the introduction of this episode. Don’t miss what’s coming next on Pardon the Mess ! Raising confident, resilient kids starts with…
May 4, 2026 · 10:02
Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” (Acts…
Apr 30, 2026 · 35:24
It’s easy to focus so much on caring for our families that we neglect our own personal faith. In this episode, Shelley Giglio, co-founder of Passion Conferences and Passion City…
Apr 27, 2026 · 13:38
I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I…
Apr 23, 2026 · 39:14
Parenting was never meant to be done alone, but building meaningful community can feel challenging in the middle of full and busy lives. In this episode, Tammie Floyd shares…
Apr 20, 2026 · 12:25
Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”…
Apr 16, 2026 · 33:35
Procrastination is something every family faces. It shows up in our own lives and in our kids, often leaving us feeling stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure where to start. In this…
Apr 13, 2026 · 8:39
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Apr 9, 2026 · 37:39
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Apr 6, 2026 · 9:30
Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the…
Apr 2, 2026 · 40:05
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Mar 30, 2026 · 8:54
Then he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” Jesus answered him, “Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.” (Luke 23:42–43) As Jesus was…
Mar 26, 2026 · 37:13
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Mar 23, 2026 · 7:51
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Mar 19, 2026 · 35:55
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Mar 16, 2026 · 14:50
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Mar 12, 2026 · 36:48
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Mar 9, 2026 · 9:08
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus…
Mar 5, 2026 · 34:02
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Mar 2, 2026 · 7:43
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Feb 26, 2026 · 34:21
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Feb 23, 2026 · 8:31
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Feb 19, 2026 · 38:56
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Feb 16, 2026 · 9:08
And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the baby leaped in her womb. And Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit, and she exclaimed with a loud cry, “Blessed are you…
Feb 12, 2026 · 36:49
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Feb 9, 2026 · 8:20
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Feb 5, 2026 · 1:34:10
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Feb 5, 2026 · 41:38
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Feb 2, 2026 · 11:55
If you keep quiet at a time like this, deliverance and relief for the Jews will arise from some other place, but you and your relatives will die. Who knows if perhaps you were…
Jan 29, 2026 · 39:21
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Jan 26, 2026 · 6:29
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Jan 22, 2026 · 32:26
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Jan 19, 2026 · 11:11
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Jan 15, 2026 · 35:58
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Jan 12, 2026 · 8:23
When they had crossed, Elijah said to Elisha, “Tell me, what can I do for you before I am taken from you?” “Let me inherit a double portion of your spirit,” Elisha replied. (2…
Jan 8, 2026 · 28:39
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Jan 5, 2026 · 8:20
Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth! (Psalm 46:10 ESV) Elijah did truly incredible things in the name of God. We…
Jan 1, 2026 · 33:00
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Dec 29, 2025 · 7:36
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Dec 25, 2025 · 33:53
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Dec 22, 2025 · 7:57
The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told. (Luke 2:20) In the Christmas story, the…
Dec 18, 2025 · 44:28
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Dec 15, 2025 · 6:43
But now your kingdom will not endure; the Lord has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him ruler of his people, because you have not kept the Lord’s command. (1…
Dec 11, 2025 · 37:14
I have a new bucket list item: I want to go to Uganda and meet Josh’s mom! What a woman. Josh Poro is a pastor and father from Uganda that has been living here in my town of…
Dec 8, 2025 · 8:50
Jonathan went to find David and encouraged him to stay strong in his faith in God. (1 Samuel 23:16 NLT) Jonathan and David were opposites and unlikely friends, but their…
Dec 4, 2025 · 33:17
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Dec 1, 2025 · 9:14
I prayed for this child, and the Lord has granted me what I asked of him. So now I give him to the Lord. For his whole life he will be given over to the Lord. (1 Samuel 1:27–28)…
Nov 27, 2025 · 33:57
In this week’s podcast, Lee Strobel is BACK to talk about the Nativity story. He shares about challenging common perceptions and interpretations. I absolutely loved hearing the…
Nov 24, 2025 · 9:15
I will praise you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all the marvelous things you have done. I will be filled with joy because of you. I will sing praises to your name, O…
Nov 20, 2025 · 31:26
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Nov 17, 2025 · 10:39
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Nov 13, 2025 · 30:38
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Nov 10, 2025 · 8:00
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Nov 6, 2025 · 39:24
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Nov 3, 2025 · 8:48
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Oct 30, 2025 · 30:46
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Oct 27, 2025 · 10:22
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:9) Joshua was one…
Oct 23, 2025 · 37:02
This episode is one we don’t want to think about - but we must. The average age of first exposure to pornography is between age 8 and 11. Porn is everywhere. As a parent, it can…
Oct 20, 2025 · 8:52
Then the Lord’s anger burned against Moses and he said, “What about your brother, Aaron the Levite? I know he can speak well. He is already on his way to meet you, and he will be…
Oct 16, 2025 · 34:33
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Oct 13, 2025 · 8:22
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Oct 9, 2025 · 35:28
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Oct 6, 2025 · 9:27
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Oct 2, 2025 · 37:35
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Sep 29, 2025 · 7:26
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Sep 25, 2025 · 29:48
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Sep 22, 2025 · 9:41
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Sep 18, 2025 · 33:37
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Sep 15, 2025 · 8:51
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Sep 11, 2025 · 23:19
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Sep 8, 2025 · 12:05
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