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Interest is not commitment, and imagined potential is not reciprocal effort. Investing ahead of what the other person has shown can pull you away from your own standards.
I explain how to match your investment to actual behavior, keep a mission bigger than dating, and reward reciprocity. Stay selective without becoming cold, and let each next step be earned.
Show Notes:
[03:51] Stay selective without becoming cold
[04:48] Point 1: Stop treating interest like a commitment.
[05:37] The sales analogy: interest earns the next conversation
[09:25] The plate-of-rice metaphor: invest one step at a time
[10:42] The Colorado ski-trip story: noticing different expectations
[12:52] Point 2: Maintain a mission that is bigger than dating.
[17:35] Point 3: Reward reciprocity, not potential.
[19:01] Discernment: respond to actual behavior
[19:42] Recap
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