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A reply or a conversation can feel like progress without indicating serious interest. Competing for more attention may pull you further from the relationship you want.
In part two, I explain how men confuse attention with opportunity and apply attention-seeking tactics to commitment goals. Examine the incentives of the environment and whether your approach is producing the kind of connection you actually want.
Show Notes:
[02:24] The Netflix analogy: competing for attention
[04:01] Point 1: Most Men Confuse Attention With Opportunity.
[04:26] The eye-contact example: attention is not an invitation
[07:23] Folded arms: read the context around a gesture
[09:33] My gym conversation: when I misread interest
[11:12] Point 2: Men Use Attention-Market Tactics for Commitment-Market Goals.
[14:21] Point 3: The Attention Economy Rewards Volume, Not Connection.
[16:10] Dan Kennedy's positioning principle: show up alone
[16:55] Recap
Episodes Mentioned:
3707: Masculine Discipline Is A Behavior, Not A Speech [Part 1 of 4]
3731: Why Men Get Ignored In The Dating Market [Part 1 of 4]
3736: Dating Apps Are Designed For You To LOSE [Part 1 of 3]
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