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Kingdom Sexuality

302: Ladies Q&A! Moving from Purity Culture to Pleasure

Kingdom Sexuality · Aug 25, 2026 · 28:52

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This ladies-only Q&A gets practical fast. You’ll hear encouragement for retraining your brain to see sex as good, not dirty, plus what to do when arousal disappears on the pill, why penetration is not enough for orgasm, and how to stop feeling like your pleasure is a burden to your husband! Ladies, tune in!!



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Approximate Time Stamps:

0:01 — Intro / ladies’ Q&A setup

0:59 — Verse of the day

1:23 — Topic overview: purity culture, pleasure, and random questions

1:56 — How to retrain your brain to enjoy sex instead of seeing it as dirty

4:14 — Resource: Hannah Ward / The Eden

4:59 — Feeling sexy for my husband feels sinful

8:13 — How to talk to your kids about sex

9:30 — Married a year and still don’t know what I like

10:45 — Retraining your brain after purity culture

11:03 — Not seeing my pleasure as a burden to my husband

14:18 — Shame about having desire at all

16:28 — Wanting lovemaking to be more interesting

18:07 — Loss of arousal on the pill

18:46 — How to tell my husband I’ve been faking it

20:07 — Orgasm only on top / grinding

20:30 — Types of touch based on your cycle

22:01 — Why penetration alone doesn’t lead to orgasm

23:17 — Is it lust to want pleasure?

25:06 — How to stay present and not let your mind wander

26:40 — Closing prayer
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