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Earn Your Happy

Earn Your Happy

How to Create a Signature Talk That Gets You Paid with Jess Ekstrom

Earn Your Happy · Apr 27, 2026 · 51:19

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Think you need more experience before you can get paid to speak? Think again. In this episode, I sit down with Jess Ekstrom, a Forbes Top Rated Speaker, to break down how to turn your lived experience into paid speaking opportunities. Jess shares how she went from speaking for a slice of pizza to commanding $35K per talk. We also dive into the shifts that get you booked, how to think about pricing without tying it to your self-worth, and how to optimize your online presence so opportunities come to you. Get ready to create a signature message that people want to book.



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HIGHLIGHTS

00:00 Why people can’t book you if they don’t know you’re a speaker.

08:30 How did you get into speaking?

11:45 The massive pay gap between male and female speakers.

15:00 The mindset shift that helps you confidently raise your rates.

17:30 How to identify your signature message.

25:00 Tips to handle fear, nerves, and worst-case scenarios on stage.

32:30 How to think about pricing without attaching it to your worth.

35:30 When do you say yes or no to free speaking?

38:00 Why you don’t need to be an expert to start speaking.

40:00 Step-by-step framework for a signature message.

46:00 Ways to optimize your profile for opportunities.



RESOURCES

Join Jess’s Mic Drop Workshop to become a paid speaker HERE!

Start with Jess’s FREE speaking training HERE!

Text “HYPE” to get weekly mindset + speaking tips from Jess - 704-228-9495

Pre-Order Jess’s book Making It Without Losing It HERE!

Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE!

Get on the waitlist for Mentor Collective Mastermind HERE!

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FOLLOW

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Follow Jess: @jess_ekstrom

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