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Barry Maher spent 20 years as a corporate speaker and wrote six nonfiction books. Then he discovered he had a brain tumor the size of a baseball. He woke up from surgery with Lady Gaga playing on loop in his head and a complete, fully formed novel already there — vivid as a memory, not a dream. Two years later, that novel became The Great Dick and the Dysfunctional Demon, published at age 76. He's also in remission and can tell time again.
We talked about: the moment on an Asian cruise when he couldn't read a clock and didn't know why; why his wife figured out something was wrong before he did (he was putting his clothes on backwards); introducing a ship's captain on stage and then asking him what he did for a living 15 minutes later; the doctor's clock-drawing test and the nurse who wouldn't let him go to the bathroom alone; why a brain cancer diagnosis is like an impending hanging — it concentrates the mind; the novel that emerged from surgery (complete with open crypts, dark spells, sudden death, and the Ralph Lauren version of the Manson family); why The Great Gatsby and Moby Dick are the same story; and the Lady Gaga song that played on loop in his head for three straight days (it's "Always Remember Us This Way" from A Star Is Born — he was not a fan before, and he is definitely not one now).
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TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 — Intro — who is Barry Maher?
0:24 — Six nonfiction books, 20 years of corporate speaking — and now a novel
1:18 — The speaking business: cold calling, articles, PR, and repeat clients
2:37 — Lou bombing at a Christmas party and waiting to get paid after
4:21 — The speaking escape hatch: "and the point of that was..."
5:41 — His first presentation: an hour of solid content, to a funeral home audience
6:50 — The cruise where he couldn't read a clock — and didn't know why
7:55 — His wife noticed something was wrong on the second cruise
9:15 — He introduced the captain — then 15 minutes later asked what he did for a living
10:06 — What it's like when your mind is the thing that's broken
10:46 — The doctor's clock test — and the nurse who wouldn't let him go to the bathroom alone
11:29 — He wrote himself off. He didn't let her accompany him to the bathroom. There are limits.
11:53 — Waking up from surgery with Lady Gaga on loop and a complete novel in his head
12:27 — The TikTok husband who can't draw clocks — and why that's not funny
14:01 — The seizure during surgery — and why the story felt like a memory, not a dream
15:01 — A brain cancer diagnosis is like an impending hanging — it concentrates the mind
15:38 — He was in his early 70s. He decided to finally write the novel he'd always wanted.
16:47 — Writing it took two years — and the memory never faded
18:26 — Lou hates writing. Barry loves it now. The brain tumor may be responsible.
20:21 — The title: The Great Dick — as in Great Gatsby meets Moby Dick
21:59 — Lou read Moby Dick aloud at his wife's hospital bed. She put pages in the wedding bouquet.
23:35 — The Great Gatsby and Moby Dick are the same story — he makes the case
24:03 — What the book is actually about
25:22 — Always Remember Us This Way — the Lady Gaga song that played for three days straight
27:15 — Did the tumor affect the part of the brain responsible for creativity?
28:16 — His wife likes the book — even with the original subtitle
29:43 — The antihero Steve Huskey — and why women are rooting for him anyway
30:09 — Health update: cancer in remission, can tell time like a champ
30:36 — Outro
Watch full episodes on YouTube → https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J4Vb53s4I0A&list=PLb5trMQQvT077-L1roE0iZyAgT4dD4EtJ
Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lou-perez-podcast/id1535032081
Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2KAtC7eFS3NHWMZp2UgMVU
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